I've started taking the Yasmin pill after being on Microgyn 30. Its already supressing my appetite and making me feel nausea. Hoping this will soon pass? Any of you girls been on this pill? Would be great to hear how you got on with it and if you had any side effects/benefits to it ?
Thanks xAdvice about the Yasmin Pill ?
Interesting. Yasmin is supposed to be the 'best' of the pills as it is low on the side effects. When I took it, the only side effect I suffered (which I didn't realise until I stopped taking it 4 years later) was a decreased libido.
Perhaps speak to your doctor if you're concerned about them, but they'll most likely dissipate if they're nothing to be worried about.
See link below for full instructions on using yasmin
Friday, April 30, 2010
I need advice about something?
i babysit a two year old boy who screams and throws things when he doesnt get his way what should i do.I need advice about something?
Talking calmly and naughty step always worked for me.
Good luck!!I need advice about something?
I would talk to the parents. Also, try ignoring him and eventually he will get tired.
Stern warnings which, if not heeded, are followed by lesser corporeal punishment. A healthy fear of authority is good for kids.
i have a 2 year old that does that...and if he has a fave blanky or stuffed toy just give it to him...chances are he'll put it over his mouth and tantrum on it...instant muffler...just let him go at it...and if you dont mind it...just let him scream...he aint screamin blood
Ask his parents, it's their place to instruct you how to look after their son.engine oil
Talking calmly and naughty step always worked for me.
Good luck!!I need advice about something?
I would talk to the parents. Also, try ignoring him and eventually he will get tired.
Stern warnings which, if not heeded, are followed by lesser corporeal punishment. A healthy fear of authority is good for kids.
i have a 2 year old that does that...and if he has a fave blanky or stuffed toy just give it to him...chances are he'll put it over his mouth and tantrum on it...instant muffler...just let him go at it...and if you dont mind it...just let him scream...he aint screamin blood
Ask his parents, it's their place to instruct you how to look after their son.
Anybody can advice about Medical Transcription course online.?
I am working with a pharmaceutical org.and also have experience of working with BPO(though only for 2 months)so am quite acquainted with american accent and also basic of pharmaceutical products and ailments.Anybody can advice about Medical Transcription course online.?
You can go to the AAMT www.aamt.org the american associtation for medical transcription. They have alot of info on Medical transcription as a career. They also have links to there 3 approved schools. CareerStep, Andrew's, and M-Tec. I know for sure that CareerStep has great training, is respected and can be done all online. I'm not sure about the other 2. Check it out.Anybody can advice about Medical Transcription course online.?
With a computer at home and internet connection, you can start earning from home, without any investment. You should choose your work at home job according to your skills and time available.
If you have a good typing speed, general and legal transcription jobs from companies like Mountain West, Tigerfish and Accutran are available. Some of these companies do not require any experience.
You can apply directly from their websites which are listed at
http://tinyurl.com/o65rb
Medical transcription work at home is also available if you have completed a course and have relevant experience.
http://www.accu-swift.com/
http://www.futuremt.com/
http://www.spectramedi.com/
http://www.vivacorporation.com/
http://www.medicaltranscription.org/
http://www.total-transcription.com/
http://transcription.thevlc.com/
Please visit the above pages. I hope, It helps u.
You can go to the AAMT www.aamt.org the american associtation for medical transcription. They have alot of info on Medical transcription as a career. They also have links to there 3 approved schools. CareerStep, Andrew's, and M-Tec. I know for sure that CareerStep has great training, is respected and can be done all online. I'm not sure about the other 2. Check it out.Anybody can advice about Medical Transcription course online.?
With a computer at home and internet connection, you can start earning from home, without any investment. You should choose your work at home job according to your skills and time available.
If you have a good typing speed, general and legal transcription jobs from companies like Mountain West, Tigerfish and Accutran are available. Some of these companies do not require any experience.
You can apply directly from their websites which are listed at
http://tinyurl.com/o65rb
Medical transcription work at home is also available if you have completed a course and have relevant experience.
http://www.accu-swift.com/
http://www.futuremt.com/
http://www.spectramedi.com/
http://www.vivacorporation.com/
http://www.medicaltranscription.org/
http://www.total-transcription.com/
http://transcription.thevlc.com/
Please visit the above pages. I hope, It helps u.
I need advice about kittens!?
My cat is soon going to have her kittens. This is the first time we will have new-born kittens and we are not sure how to take care of them. When do we start feeding them? When she would train them to use a kitty litter box? Are we allowed to touch them when they are born? This is just the main stuff I need. If you could give me extra advice that would be great but you don't have to. Thanks! :-)I need advice about kittens!?
Just provide her with a soft, padded bed that is somewhat secluded and safe, and nearby food and water.....she will take care of the rest. If she has difficulty giving birth, she may need veterinary help...it does happen sometime. You may touch them, but handle them gently.....and she may be distressed when you do.
After about 3 weeks, if you provide a low-sided litterbox for them, they will prolly start using it. You can feed them soft foods whenever they will start eating it.....prolly around 4 or 5 weeks.
Have fun with them....I LOVE kittens.I need advice about kittens!?
Kittens how cute. The mom should feed them until the are at least 5 or 6 weeks I think. THen you should feed them soft food. (I think)
You've gotten some great advice here. You can also do more research on the Web. I would definitely check in with the vet and ask her/him when you should bring them in for their first check, and if there is anything in particular you should do. If you do more research, you'll have more questions for your vet. After all, the vet knows your cat's history and will have more specific answers for you.
The mother will wean the kittens when she is ready, just have food available if they want it. They should follow the mothers example on using the litter box. You can touch them but it is not recommended. If you have a picky cat it is possible she could abandon them if you bother them (although I have never had this happen) The mother will basically do everything for you. Cats are pretty independent.
is your cat indoors or outdoors? If she is indoors, just make sure to have like a box with old clothes in the closet, so she could have them there. She would do all the work! chewing the plasenta, cutting the cord, and cleaning them, let her do all the work, surpriseling she would know what to do! even if its her first time having a litter (nature). After she has all her kittens make sure to keep her food and water closed by, so she wont have to leave the kittens for too long. If she is an outdoors cat, you just have to keep an eye to where she would go and have the litter, if she feels that the kittens are not safe! she would move them! So, its best if you could keep her indoors. She is going to teach them everything! all you have to do is provide them food and water. Good luck! kittens are so cute! but remember eventually they become full grown cats!!!
Congratulations! My baby kittens started using a tiny little litter box(that I made from a small cardboard box for their size) when they were 3 wks. old. The sooner the better, as long as they don't eat the litter. I put a little of urined litter from the mom's box into theirs so they know what it is for. Kittens don't start making poopies until they start on food, usually around 4-5 wks old. Don't handle the kittens for at least a week--the mom needs to tend to them %26amp; she may move them %26amp; hide them if you are too close to them too much. She needs to be calm %26amp; feel secure in order to nurse them well. Mom will spend most all of her time nursing in the beginning (as soon as the kitten is born), but will take breaks for food or even a short nap.
you feed them when the mother stops nursing them. you should avoid handling too much until their eyes open, if the mother is litter trained she will teach them, just take care of mom and she should do the rest
OK!
1.) MAKE SURE THE MOM CAT IS COMFY
2.) The mom will feed the kittens for a while, when she runs out of milk, then u start spoon-feeding it milk
3.) When it is about 10 minutes old, u can touch it.
4.) Do the litterbox thing when u think u should train them!
You dont have to feed the kittens until after they can at least get up and walk around. For the time being the mother cat will take care of feeding the babies, just make sure you provide the mother with plenty of food so she can produce milk for the kittens. And I would advise that you do not touch them until after they get a little older, the mother cat will most likely be very protective of her babies and wont let you mess with them.
Has your momma cat been checked by a vet? The main reason you should do this is to get an x-ray of her womb to get an estimate of how many kittens she's going to have. That way, when she's giving birth, you can keep track of the number that have come out. If she goes for more than twelve hours without producing the last one, she needs to see a vet quickly. Cats can rest for several hours inbetween each birth but if you know how many she's supposed to have and they haven't all come out within a day, take her to the vet. She and the kittens can die if she doesn't get help!
When she starts nesting, suggest a quiet, dim, comfortable place for her. A large box padded with towels or a blanket in an out of the way room (or even large uncluttered closet) is ideal. Make sure she has food, water, and a liter box. Leave her alone. Cats feel very vulnerable when they give birth and don't like to have people hanging around.
As the kittens are born, she should clean them herself and she will also probably eat the afterbirth. This is an instinct that goes back to her wild ancestors - if there is no trace of a newborn around, predators will be less likely to harm her youngsters. You will probably hear her purr. The vibrations of her purr and her scent are the only sense the kittens can pick up on. Her purrs will guide them to her nipples and, since each one has a different scent, each kitten will return to the same one as long as its nursing.
Unless your momma cat rejects the kittens, she will do everything for them and teach them to be model citizens. Kittens are a lot like children, they mimick their mother. They'll learn liter box manners from her.
If you have a well socialized cat, she may even start bringing the kittens to you for visits when they're eyes and ears open! To have friendly kittens, it is good to handle them from day one. But do so carefully and gently. You don't want to upset momma and you don't want to hurt them either. Just pick them up and stroke each one a few times and return it to momma. If momma growls, leave the kittens and her alone for a few days, until she's comfortable with her new family.
They'll start trying out her food when they're about a month and half old. When they start doing this, offer the kittens softened versions of the same food momma is eating. BTW, if you haven't already, start stwitching her over to a kitten formula food. Kitten formulas have more calories and more protien than regular adult mixes and she needs all the calories she can get while she's nursing. Also, the kittens will be able to eat the same kibble with no problem.
When my cat had kittens for the first time she didn鈥檛 know what to do. So it is smart to keep an eye on her while she is in labor. Don鈥檛 get too close. You don鈥檛 want her to feel threatened. But if she doesn鈥檛 start cleaning the kittens after they are born you will need to show her. Get a clean rag and carefully clean the eyes, ears and most importantly the nose. My cat didn鈥檛 know what to do the first time so by the time we started helping her three of them suffocated in the sack like substance they are born in.
I would say also watch your cat if she is feeding them. New mother cats are sometimes reluctant to feed their young. And whether or not you can touch them when they are just born depends on the relationship you have with your cat and your cat鈥檚 personality. Some new mothers are really protective of their young so you have to watch how she reacts to you being close. But still I wouldn鈥檛 touch the kittens unless you absolutely have to. When you do have to keep taking to your cat in a soothing voice let her know you won鈥檛 hurt the kittens.
I usually start feeding the kittens with soft foods when they start standing up and their eyes have opened. I usually start with sour cream and then slowly work up to giving they cat food or kitten food.
Training should start as soon as they can walk around. I don't mean crawling I mean walking. When they can freely walk around and soil your house. Before that their mother will help them go and clean them.
my cat just had kittens 4 weeks ago. it isent that hard. step 1
get a box.
place the kittens i it carefully.
the mother will need to be lifted.
KEEP THE MATE AWAY!!!!(if you want the cats)
keep them nere the mom.
in 6 weeks give them milk with a dab of vinniger.
remember AWAY FROM MATE AKA THE BOY CAT
You usually start trying to teach the kittens to eat a soft food at about 4-5 weeks. The mother will train them to use the litter box as soon as they start climbing out of the box on their own. it also depends on the mother if she will let you touch and handle them. some mothers are very finicky and wont let you near their kittens, but if she is very loveable and sweet you shouldnt have a problem, i suggest you wait until they are at least four or five days old first though, that way the mother can bond with them properly.
All of the above is good advice. However, I don't mean to spoil your joy of having new kittens, but please spay/neuter your pets.
There are way too many pets that will never find a good home. There is a huge pet overpopulation especially with cats. Please view the video (click on the golden retriever) and gain some knowledge about the pet overpopulation.
http://www.mypetnanny.info/PD/index.htm
Everyday in this country there are 10,000 humans born. Everyday in this country there are 70,000 puppys and kittens born. There are not enough homes for them all.
And tell your friends! There are way too many people who have no idea about these problems. Please don't breed your pets. Spay/neuter them.
Congretuation!
You have all the good answers and help given.
Just enjoy your children.
Good luck.
The mother will wean eventually. if she doesn't begin by 4 weeks you will have 2 take the kittens inside or away frum the mother
Just provide her with a soft, padded bed that is somewhat secluded and safe, and nearby food and water.....she will take care of the rest. If she has difficulty giving birth, she may need veterinary help...it does happen sometime. You may touch them, but handle them gently.....and she may be distressed when you do.
After about 3 weeks, if you provide a low-sided litterbox for them, they will prolly start using it. You can feed them soft foods whenever they will start eating it.....prolly around 4 or 5 weeks.
Have fun with them....I LOVE kittens.I need advice about kittens!?
Kittens how cute. The mom should feed them until the are at least 5 or 6 weeks I think. THen you should feed them soft food. (I think)
You've gotten some great advice here. You can also do more research on the Web. I would definitely check in with the vet and ask her/him when you should bring them in for their first check, and if there is anything in particular you should do. If you do more research, you'll have more questions for your vet. After all, the vet knows your cat's history and will have more specific answers for you.
The mother will wean the kittens when she is ready, just have food available if they want it. They should follow the mothers example on using the litter box. You can touch them but it is not recommended. If you have a picky cat it is possible she could abandon them if you bother them (although I have never had this happen) The mother will basically do everything for you. Cats are pretty independent.
is your cat indoors or outdoors? If she is indoors, just make sure to have like a box with old clothes in the closet, so she could have them there. She would do all the work! chewing the plasenta, cutting the cord, and cleaning them, let her do all the work, surpriseling she would know what to do! even if its her first time having a litter (nature). After she has all her kittens make sure to keep her food and water closed by, so she wont have to leave the kittens for too long. If she is an outdoors cat, you just have to keep an eye to where she would go and have the litter, if she feels that the kittens are not safe! she would move them! So, its best if you could keep her indoors. She is going to teach them everything! all you have to do is provide them food and water. Good luck! kittens are so cute! but remember eventually they become full grown cats!!!
Congratulations! My baby kittens started using a tiny little litter box(that I made from a small cardboard box for their size) when they were 3 wks. old. The sooner the better, as long as they don't eat the litter. I put a little of urined litter from the mom's box into theirs so they know what it is for. Kittens don't start making poopies until they start on food, usually around 4-5 wks old. Don't handle the kittens for at least a week--the mom needs to tend to them %26amp; she may move them %26amp; hide them if you are too close to them too much. She needs to be calm %26amp; feel secure in order to nurse them well. Mom will spend most all of her time nursing in the beginning (as soon as the kitten is born), but will take breaks for food or even a short nap.
you feed them when the mother stops nursing them. you should avoid handling too much until their eyes open, if the mother is litter trained she will teach them, just take care of mom and she should do the rest
OK!
1.) MAKE SURE THE MOM CAT IS COMFY
2.) The mom will feed the kittens for a while, when she runs out of milk, then u start spoon-feeding it milk
3.) When it is about 10 minutes old, u can touch it.
4.) Do the litterbox thing when u think u should train them!
You dont have to feed the kittens until after they can at least get up and walk around. For the time being the mother cat will take care of feeding the babies, just make sure you provide the mother with plenty of food so she can produce milk for the kittens. And I would advise that you do not touch them until after they get a little older, the mother cat will most likely be very protective of her babies and wont let you mess with them.
Has your momma cat been checked by a vet? The main reason you should do this is to get an x-ray of her womb to get an estimate of how many kittens she's going to have. That way, when she's giving birth, you can keep track of the number that have come out. If she goes for more than twelve hours without producing the last one, she needs to see a vet quickly. Cats can rest for several hours inbetween each birth but if you know how many she's supposed to have and they haven't all come out within a day, take her to the vet. She and the kittens can die if she doesn't get help!
When she starts nesting, suggest a quiet, dim, comfortable place for her. A large box padded with towels or a blanket in an out of the way room (or even large uncluttered closet) is ideal. Make sure she has food, water, and a liter box. Leave her alone. Cats feel very vulnerable when they give birth and don't like to have people hanging around.
As the kittens are born, she should clean them herself and she will also probably eat the afterbirth. This is an instinct that goes back to her wild ancestors - if there is no trace of a newborn around, predators will be less likely to harm her youngsters. You will probably hear her purr. The vibrations of her purr and her scent are the only sense the kittens can pick up on. Her purrs will guide them to her nipples and, since each one has a different scent, each kitten will return to the same one as long as its nursing.
Unless your momma cat rejects the kittens, she will do everything for them and teach them to be model citizens. Kittens are a lot like children, they mimick their mother. They'll learn liter box manners from her.
If you have a well socialized cat, she may even start bringing the kittens to you for visits when they're eyes and ears open! To have friendly kittens, it is good to handle them from day one. But do so carefully and gently. You don't want to upset momma and you don't want to hurt them either. Just pick them up and stroke each one a few times and return it to momma. If momma growls, leave the kittens and her alone for a few days, until she's comfortable with her new family.
They'll start trying out her food when they're about a month and half old. When they start doing this, offer the kittens softened versions of the same food momma is eating. BTW, if you haven't already, start stwitching her over to a kitten formula food. Kitten formulas have more calories and more protien than regular adult mixes and she needs all the calories she can get while she's nursing. Also, the kittens will be able to eat the same kibble with no problem.
When my cat had kittens for the first time she didn鈥檛 know what to do. So it is smart to keep an eye on her while she is in labor. Don鈥檛 get too close. You don鈥檛 want her to feel threatened. But if she doesn鈥檛 start cleaning the kittens after they are born you will need to show her. Get a clean rag and carefully clean the eyes, ears and most importantly the nose. My cat didn鈥檛 know what to do the first time so by the time we started helping her three of them suffocated in the sack like substance they are born in.
I would say also watch your cat if she is feeding them. New mother cats are sometimes reluctant to feed their young. And whether or not you can touch them when they are just born depends on the relationship you have with your cat and your cat鈥檚 personality. Some new mothers are really protective of their young so you have to watch how she reacts to you being close. But still I wouldn鈥檛 touch the kittens unless you absolutely have to. When you do have to keep taking to your cat in a soothing voice let her know you won鈥檛 hurt the kittens.
I usually start feeding the kittens with soft foods when they start standing up and their eyes have opened. I usually start with sour cream and then slowly work up to giving they cat food or kitten food.
Training should start as soon as they can walk around. I don't mean crawling I mean walking. When they can freely walk around and soil your house. Before that their mother will help them go and clean them.
my cat just had kittens 4 weeks ago. it isent that hard. step 1
get a box.
place the kittens i it carefully.
the mother will need to be lifted.
KEEP THE MATE AWAY!!!!(if you want the cats)
keep them nere the mom.
in 6 weeks give them milk with a dab of vinniger.
remember AWAY FROM MATE AKA THE BOY CAT
You usually start trying to teach the kittens to eat a soft food at about 4-5 weeks. The mother will train them to use the litter box as soon as they start climbing out of the box on their own. it also depends on the mother if she will let you touch and handle them. some mothers are very finicky and wont let you near their kittens, but if she is very loveable and sweet you shouldnt have a problem, i suggest you wait until they are at least four or five days old first though, that way the mother can bond with them properly.
All of the above is good advice. However, I don't mean to spoil your joy of having new kittens, but please spay/neuter your pets.
There are way too many pets that will never find a good home. There is a huge pet overpopulation especially with cats. Please view the video (click on the golden retriever) and gain some knowledge about the pet overpopulation.
http://www.mypetnanny.info/PD/index.htm
Everyday in this country there are 10,000 humans born. Everyday in this country there are 70,000 puppys and kittens born. There are not enough homes for them all.
And tell your friends! There are way too many people who have no idea about these problems. Please don't breed your pets. Spay/neuter them.
Congretuation!
You have all the good answers and help given.
Just enjoy your children.
Good luck.
The mother will wean eventually. if she doesn't begin by 4 weeks you will have 2 take the kittens inside or away frum the mother
I need advice about my boyfriend (i am 14 so yea)?
OK we spend no time together. Only on the school bus for 8 minutes to and from school, at school he doesnt talk nor hangout with me. He doesnt tell his other friends that he's taken EVEN IF ITS A GIRL!! He hugs other girls. He hangs out with other girls more then me. THESE GIRLS ARE CLOSER TO HIM THEN I AM!! and i dont want to leave him. HELP ME PLEASE!! :[I need advice about my boyfriend (i am 14 so yea)?
You're clearly not his girlfriend.I need advice about my boyfriend (i am 14 so yea)?
Hes to immature to be in a relationship. Either dump him if it bothers you that he does that, or sick it out with him because you have to realize that hes 14 and you can't expect much more out of a 14 year old with something like a real relationship. Not knocking your age, but at when i was 14, girls were nothing but a flirting game. Dont stress it, your so young and i can garinti you, you will not be with him forever n e ways. you personality is gonna change so much in the next 5 years, you will look back at this time in your life and wonder why you stressed over dumb stuff like boys instead of enjoying your youth. its ok tho because every 1 does it. you will have a lot of happy times with boys and you will get your heart torn out at least once. So dont stress him hugging other girls and not talking to you like you would like. like i said if it bothers your. dump him and move on. good luck, and dont grow up 2 fast.
hes young and immature... you will experience ALOT of this... but however if hes not making effort to work the relationship it wont last. Also communication is super important work on it.. just be liek hey we need to talk and ask him why he behaves that way around girls and no time with you. Honestly i cant see this relatioship lasting unless you guys both work equally hard for it.
Is he really worth it?
At your age, it's hard to understand-- been there-- .. but think about this.
- How many years/ months/ weeks have you been with him?
- You've only lived 14 years of your life.
- You have so much more life to live, and boys to meet.
So again, is he really worth this?
Sorry Emily, you're going to have to leave him. If you don't start standing up for yourself now you are going to let guys walk all over you for the rest of your life.
yeah, he is not ready for a relationship. Your just his side dish when he wants a gf he will come to you. But he is so young and so are you so of course he is going to be the boy that you describe.
Then hang out with him, you shouldn't wait for him to want to hang out with you.
Take the lead.
He's a young boy. This is normal for young boys. That's why getting serious at your age is not smart.
show him that u wanna be seen with him.or mention to other that u are togther. maybe u need 2 ask him y he acts that wyay?
tell him how u feel man u can probably find a better man but if u dont want 2 leev him den tell him how u feel dats wat i wud do
It seems like he doesn't want anyone to know ur his gf. Don't waste ur time with him.
you should tell him that u want to hang out more.
You're clearly not his girlfriend.I need advice about my boyfriend (i am 14 so yea)?
Hes to immature to be in a relationship. Either dump him if it bothers you that he does that, or sick it out with him because you have to realize that hes 14 and you can't expect much more out of a 14 year old with something like a real relationship. Not knocking your age, but at when i was 14, girls were nothing but a flirting game. Dont stress it, your so young and i can garinti you, you will not be with him forever n e ways. you personality is gonna change so much in the next 5 years, you will look back at this time in your life and wonder why you stressed over dumb stuff like boys instead of enjoying your youth. its ok tho because every 1 does it. you will have a lot of happy times with boys and you will get your heart torn out at least once. So dont stress him hugging other girls and not talking to you like you would like. like i said if it bothers your. dump him and move on. good luck, and dont grow up 2 fast.
hes young and immature... you will experience ALOT of this... but however if hes not making effort to work the relationship it wont last. Also communication is super important work on it.. just be liek hey we need to talk and ask him why he behaves that way around girls and no time with you. Honestly i cant see this relatioship lasting unless you guys both work equally hard for it.
Is he really worth it?
At your age, it's hard to understand-- been there-- .. but think about this.
- How many years/ months/ weeks have you been with him?
- You've only lived 14 years of your life.
- You have so much more life to live, and boys to meet.
So again, is he really worth this?
Sorry Emily, you're going to have to leave him. If you don't start standing up for yourself now you are going to let guys walk all over you for the rest of your life.
yeah, he is not ready for a relationship. Your just his side dish when he wants a gf he will come to you. But he is so young and so are you so of course he is going to be the boy that you describe.
Then hang out with him, you shouldn't wait for him to want to hang out with you.
Take the lead.
He's a young boy. This is normal for young boys. That's why getting serious at your age is not smart.
show him that u wanna be seen with him.or mention to other that u are togther. maybe u need 2 ask him y he acts that wyay?
tell him how u feel man u can probably find a better man but if u dont want 2 leev him den tell him how u feel dats wat i wud do
It seems like he doesn't want anyone to know ur his gf. Don't waste ur time with him.
you should tell him that u want to hang out more.
I need advice about daughthers anxiety!?
My 5 year old has an abcess in her mouth and the dentist said she has to get her tooth pulled on Tuesday and she gets very nervous just going to the dentist her nose starts to bleed and her blood presure is through the roof. I was wondering if anyone else has this problem or and ideas! ThanksI need advice about daughthers anxiety!?
The dentist needs to be aware of this. Perhaps he can suggest something to calm her. Ask him if it would be safe to give her a little benedryl or something that would make her a little sleepy. Or, perhaps he can give her laughing gas, or maybe even something to make her sleep during the procedure. Normally you would want to avoid doing this in a child her age, but it is not safe for her blood pressure to go up so high that her nose starts bleeding. Also, I suggest that you not tell her where you are going. No sense in making her blood pressure sky rocket way before you get there. If you feel that she needs to be warned, then tell her when you are half way there, but help her to understand that the dentist realizes how scared she is and will try to make it better for her. Also, let her take along her favorite stuffed animal and even a little blanket if she has one. Call the office and let them know how severe her fear is and that you are allowing her to bring these in with her. Anything that will help to comfort her and make her feel secure. Good luck with this.I need advice about daughthers anxiety!?
Yes my son went through the same thing!! try to make it a fun day, tell her as soon as we finish at the denist we can go to the park with the dog, or we can go get a puppy. Something that she'll want to get the dentist over with so she can get to the activity afterwards GOOD LUCK
I had this problem years ago with my little girl. The dentist would never allow me to go back with my daughter. It was a hard and fast rule in his office. This is an unhappy story, because it turned out the dentist was putting his hand over her mouth and holding it there so she could not breathe if she put up a fuss or complained of pain. This did not come out until some years later when he did that to one little girl and she died because she got so upset she vomited and aspirated the vomit (because he had his hand over her mouth). I am not saying this is the case with your daughter, but please question her to make sure the dentist is not treating her badly. In the case of my daughter, not only did he put his hand over her mouth, but he would pinch her gums with his pliers and threaten that she would never get to see her family again if she didn't stop crying. He was really a sadist. When the case came to trial about the little girl he killed, about 20 former patients showed up to testify about how he had done the same things to them when they were little. The judge would not allow the testimony in, and that little girl's death was ruled an accident!
Anyway, that's what happened. I felt horrible that I had not questioned my daughter's fear of the dentist more closely at the time.
I dont know what to do about this specific pulling-teeth thing, but i have a fear of dentists and my mom took me to a pediatric dentist and it helped because they got that i was scared and had alternatives to some stuff. Just something to consider. Try and figure out what she dislikes so much about the dentist.
Take her to a doctor and have her put on some medication for anixiety.
Cammomile tea twice or three times a day. This will ease the anxiety. Alos what works great for anxiety is getting her active. Out for walks with you and sports.
About the phsycological aspect of the dentist. Maybe you could expalin to her that the dentist will make sure that you won't feel a thing plus that you will be there with her standing by her side holding her hand. Plus she gets to miss school. You can tell her that you'll make her favorite meal when she gets home.
I'm 31 and have an abcess in my mouth and I am even procrastinating getting it done. Dentists now, the good ones, really make sure people are super comfortable when they do the work. I have so many male friends that are totally scared of the dentist...big huge men...and they always seem to find dentists that treat them like babies cause they are so scared. Dentisits have changed there ways especially with kids.
I hope that helps a little. I can imagine what she is feeling but it won't be that bad at all. My Mom used to just hold my hand and crack jokes with me while it was being done to help ease the stress.
Next time there is a dentist appointment I would tell her the day you have to take her and stay in the room with her when she gets anything done!
when my daughter was in first grade she had a tooth pulled %26amp; the dentist gave me a prescription for 1 pill to give her 30 minutes before her appointment. it was some type of muscle relaxer (or something like that) to relax her.
Are you going to a pediatric dentist? They specialize in working with children daily and may be your best bet. Has she any bad experiences at the dentist/doctors office before, or does she just tend to be nervous about these appointments in general? I am concerned because if she is 5, she is old enough to remember how scared she becomes around the dentist. This can affect her reaction to taking care of her teeth (i.e. getting them cleaned every 6 months) for the rest of her life.
Talk to your dentist about the procedure. He/she should be able to provide a medication to relax her, which sounds like it will be necessary to remove the tooth. Also, he could use nitrous oxide (a.k.a. laughing gas) to help calm your daughter. Some dentists will physically strap children down - as your daughter will remember this I highly suggest against it!
Be sure to stay in the room with your daughter reassuring her that everything will be okay. I'd even think about wrapping up a special gift for her so she will have something to open for doing such a great job. She'll need lots of emotional support. This can be a difficult time for kids, as they tend to be scared of the unknown. Talk to her about having teeth pulled and perhaps have an older child talk to her about the ';positives'; (such as the tooth fairy) of having a tooth pulled... this doesn't have to be detailed or directed about her upcoming appointment.
Hope this information helps!
Ask the dentist if they can give you something to give to her an hour or so before the visit that will calm her down.
Who wouldn't? It's terrifying!
Be there for her emotionally and have some sort of fun event planned for later so she can remember your presence and love that day, which will take away the emotional pain.
u need to do anxiety relief therapy before going to the dentist. ask u r dentist and there are many drugs who can relief anxiety, so give any one of it half an hour before visiting to the dentist, and also its doctor's responsibility as well to calm down the patient before going to the surgery process, no matters it is major or minor like tooth extraction. ask u r daughter what she likes as a gift if she agrees for the extraction.
but keep in mind the atmosphere of the dentist's clinic is friendly n calm.
good luck
If you live in the UK, you dentist could refer your daughter to a clinic that specialise in phobic children, they can also give her some diazipam to help her keep calm.
I work in a community clinic and we deal with children with similar problems every day and manage to get them over it, with time.
Hope all goes well
Qualified Dental Nurse
The dentist needs to be aware of this. Perhaps he can suggest something to calm her. Ask him if it would be safe to give her a little benedryl or something that would make her a little sleepy. Or, perhaps he can give her laughing gas, or maybe even something to make her sleep during the procedure. Normally you would want to avoid doing this in a child her age, but it is not safe for her blood pressure to go up so high that her nose starts bleeding. Also, I suggest that you not tell her where you are going. No sense in making her blood pressure sky rocket way before you get there. If you feel that she needs to be warned, then tell her when you are half way there, but help her to understand that the dentist realizes how scared she is and will try to make it better for her. Also, let her take along her favorite stuffed animal and even a little blanket if she has one. Call the office and let them know how severe her fear is and that you are allowing her to bring these in with her. Anything that will help to comfort her and make her feel secure. Good luck with this.I need advice about daughthers anxiety!?
Yes my son went through the same thing!! try to make it a fun day, tell her as soon as we finish at the denist we can go to the park with the dog, or we can go get a puppy. Something that she'll want to get the dentist over with so she can get to the activity afterwards GOOD LUCK
I had this problem years ago with my little girl. The dentist would never allow me to go back with my daughter. It was a hard and fast rule in his office. This is an unhappy story, because it turned out the dentist was putting his hand over her mouth and holding it there so she could not breathe if she put up a fuss or complained of pain. This did not come out until some years later when he did that to one little girl and she died because she got so upset she vomited and aspirated the vomit (because he had his hand over her mouth). I am not saying this is the case with your daughter, but please question her to make sure the dentist is not treating her badly. In the case of my daughter, not only did he put his hand over her mouth, but he would pinch her gums with his pliers and threaten that she would never get to see her family again if she didn't stop crying. He was really a sadist. When the case came to trial about the little girl he killed, about 20 former patients showed up to testify about how he had done the same things to them when they were little. The judge would not allow the testimony in, and that little girl's death was ruled an accident!
Anyway, that's what happened. I felt horrible that I had not questioned my daughter's fear of the dentist more closely at the time.
I dont know what to do about this specific pulling-teeth thing, but i have a fear of dentists and my mom took me to a pediatric dentist and it helped because they got that i was scared and had alternatives to some stuff. Just something to consider. Try and figure out what she dislikes so much about the dentist.
Take her to a doctor and have her put on some medication for anixiety.
Cammomile tea twice or three times a day. This will ease the anxiety. Alos what works great for anxiety is getting her active. Out for walks with you and sports.
About the phsycological aspect of the dentist. Maybe you could expalin to her that the dentist will make sure that you won't feel a thing plus that you will be there with her standing by her side holding her hand. Plus she gets to miss school. You can tell her that you'll make her favorite meal when she gets home.
I'm 31 and have an abcess in my mouth and I am even procrastinating getting it done. Dentists now, the good ones, really make sure people are super comfortable when they do the work. I have so many male friends that are totally scared of the dentist...big huge men...and they always seem to find dentists that treat them like babies cause they are so scared. Dentisits have changed there ways especially with kids.
I hope that helps a little. I can imagine what she is feeling but it won't be that bad at all. My Mom used to just hold my hand and crack jokes with me while it was being done to help ease the stress.
Next time there is a dentist appointment I would tell her the day you have to take her and stay in the room with her when she gets anything done!
when my daughter was in first grade she had a tooth pulled %26amp; the dentist gave me a prescription for 1 pill to give her 30 minutes before her appointment. it was some type of muscle relaxer (or something like that) to relax her.
Are you going to a pediatric dentist? They specialize in working with children daily and may be your best bet. Has she any bad experiences at the dentist/doctors office before, or does she just tend to be nervous about these appointments in general? I am concerned because if she is 5, she is old enough to remember how scared she becomes around the dentist. This can affect her reaction to taking care of her teeth (i.e. getting them cleaned every 6 months) for the rest of her life.
Talk to your dentist about the procedure. He/she should be able to provide a medication to relax her, which sounds like it will be necessary to remove the tooth. Also, he could use nitrous oxide (a.k.a. laughing gas) to help calm your daughter. Some dentists will physically strap children down - as your daughter will remember this I highly suggest against it!
Be sure to stay in the room with your daughter reassuring her that everything will be okay. I'd even think about wrapping up a special gift for her so she will have something to open for doing such a great job. She'll need lots of emotional support. This can be a difficult time for kids, as they tend to be scared of the unknown. Talk to her about having teeth pulled and perhaps have an older child talk to her about the ';positives'; (such as the tooth fairy) of having a tooth pulled... this doesn't have to be detailed or directed about her upcoming appointment.
Hope this information helps!
Ask the dentist if they can give you something to give to her an hour or so before the visit that will calm her down.
Who wouldn't? It's terrifying!
Be there for her emotionally and have some sort of fun event planned for later so she can remember your presence and love that day, which will take away the emotional pain.
u need to do anxiety relief therapy before going to the dentist. ask u r dentist and there are many drugs who can relief anxiety, so give any one of it half an hour before visiting to the dentist, and also its doctor's responsibility as well to calm down the patient before going to the surgery process, no matters it is major or minor like tooth extraction. ask u r daughter what she likes as a gift if she agrees for the extraction.
but keep in mind the atmosphere of the dentist's clinic is friendly n calm.
good luck
If you live in the UK, you dentist could refer your daughter to a clinic that specialise in phobic children, they can also give her some diazipam to help her keep calm.
I work in a community clinic and we deal with children with similar problems every day and manage to get them over it, with time.
Hope all goes well
Qualified Dental Nurse
I need advice about my ideas for my wedding!!?
does anyone think it would be inapproriate if i had a black dress and we had black and white balloons and black table cloths, and red rose petals everywhere with big white candles on the tables along with rose petals and such??(this may be in a church, my youth pastor has no idea of my intentions yet)
please help~! mom is driving me crazy to get my plans straight since im getting married june 9!!I need advice about my ideas for my wedding!!?
Though technically you as the bride can pick any color you want. but you have to think about the perceptions of your family. if you go the black route i believe the family will think a few options 1) that you are goth 2)that you view your marriage as a death or 3) you are very weird.
As much as i would like to wear a dress other than white since white would make me look like a giant whale its the perceptions of the people around us that make us do the things we do. The real people to ask would be your family, and explain to them why you want this so.I need advice about my ideas for my wedding!!?
You can do whatever you want, but I think it's kind of dark. I am having a black/silver/red wedding, but my dress is pure white.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
In my opinion, the black and white theme looks very classy and modern. The only thing I would change is that instead of wearing a black wedding dress, consider a white wedding dress with black accents such as a wide black ribbon at the waist. This looks much more wedding-like, still fits within the black and white color theme, and I'm SURE your youth pastor will approve.
Another thing that you might want to consider is instead of purely red roses, adding in white roses in the bouquets. It would tie the red into the black and white theme.
Try the following sites and dress designs for inspiration. Good luck!
http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns鈥?/a>
http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns鈥?/a>
I would talk with your church that you're planning on being married in. Many churches and people will see all those decorations as being very GOTH, and while I've seen goth weddings, they have NOT been in a standard church. Many churches also have guidelines about dress for the bridal party. You can do whatever you want to, as long as you're paying for it though. If your mom's kicking in money (and I suspect she is) you better listen to her. Maybe have black trim on a white dress, I've seen some lovely gowns with black embroidery all over, they look really very striking. You could even do a gold or champagne colored dress, but again, you're working up against a deadline here.
Also, many places have regulations about open flames...so the candle idea may have to be in votives, or in hurricane lamps.
Also, if your wedding is June 9 of THIS year, your mom's right...you've got to get some of these details nailed down. It's all but too late to special order a dress and have it arrive in time, many locations will already have been booked. Many people book wedding locations (especially in JUNE) a year or more in advance. You need to do the following...very quickly.
1. Location
2. budget
3. guest list
4. wedding dress
5. bridesmaids dresses
6. florist
7. photographer
8. dj
9. caterer
These are all the things that need significant lead time up to the event. These are also people that are going to be booked earliest as well, since you're also dealing with a high school/college graduation overlap being so early in June. I wish you the best of luck.
It's wholly inappropriate and gross to even think about. If you don't want to or can't wear white, then wear blush, or not a traditional dress at all.
I think you need to do what makes you happiest. Although your plans are not traditional, they are what you want.
i don't know about a black dress.
Married in White, you have chosen right.
Married in Grey, you will go far away,
Married in Black, you will wish yourself back,
Married in Red, you will wish yourself dead,
Married in Green, ashamed to be seen,
Married in Blue, you will always be true,
Married in Pearl, you will live in a whirl,
Married in Yellow, ashamed of your fellow,
Married in Brown, you will live in the town,
Married in Pink, of you he'll think.
usually black is represented as a depressing color. but if you don't really care then go for it! just have a lil tidbit in your wedding program explaining why you have a black dress- it might be interesting.
what about a white/cream dress with black accents? a sash, flowers, lacing, etc
i think the decor sounds fine.
You might want to go with a white dress with black accents. I've seen this a couple of times %26amp; it's rather pretty. All black for a wedding dress tends to lend itself more towards Goth or Wiccan thinking.
YOUR WEDDING IS YOUR TIME.....You want a goth theme then hun go 4 it who cares what others think this is your one and hopefully only wedding so plan what you want.
Your memories of the day are what is most important. I think it sounds elegant and its 2007 hun what is so over done.
Congrats and good luck
My mother was married in black and her and my dad are still married... 40 years lady....
I would talk the pastor to make sure it's ok but it sounds fine to me.
not at all. They call weddings like that ';gothic style'; even though that may not be your theme. I went to a real gothic wedding last year and it was gorgeous. cheap too
If you are having the wedding in a church, you may want to discuss this with your pastor. It isn't your mother's wedding, so I suggest you get busy and get your plans in order. This is yours and your future husband's special day. Make it right for both of you. If anyone objects, they don't need to come to the wedding.
nontraditional(black dress) is unique and that is what makes this your wedding. i would go with what makes you happy. you are the one paying for it and you are the one who has that memory for the rest of your life!
~Well after all it is ';your day';...
But if you are going to have it in a Church... I would go with the traditional ';white'; wedding dress....
Because not to be mean or anything... But a black wedding dress screams ';GOTH';... and the last time I checked...
Goth and Church dont mix well!
The black dress is a no-go. It's your day but you want your guests to be positive. You could have the bridesmaid wear black dresses as well as the groomsmen. You dress could be any color really but white is a symbol of purity and happiness for the future. Maybe a white dress that has black accents on it. Black and white balloons and black table cloths will be ok as long as you add more color to it.. such as the rose petals you talk about. It'll look classy. When I hear your idea, I think 50th wedding anniversary but it'll work as a wedding also. Try adding silver accents to places throughout the wedding. It'll be nice. Good luck!
I am planning a friend's wedding right now and I must say that is kind of tacky I think you should wear a white dress and do everything else please think about it
all black, maybe. but it's your wedding. i'm getting married in december and my wedding dress is white with black details. i think as long as it doesnt look too gothic then no one should have a problem with it.
hope all goes well
My friend had a black and white winter wedding. She didn't wear an all black dress, but her white wedding dress had lots of black accents in it. It was very elegant.
I love the idea of black table cloths with maybe red fabric runners and rose petals.
My invitations were black, red, and white.
like others have said... it's your wedding, your special day, not anyone elses... I am planning mine for aug 4th, and got engaged just 2 weeks ago, and have almost everything already done, so don't worry about running out of time... it will fall into place. As for the black... wear what you want, but if you dress like your bridesmaids, you won't stand out like you are suppose to. If you do black table clothes, maybe have shorter white or red ones that drap a bit over them. My cousin had a red, black %26amp; white wedding and it was very tasteful. CONGRATS %26amp; GOOD LUCK... It's stressful, but oh so fun!!! I'm thrilled for you!
please help~! mom is driving me crazy to get my plans straight since im getting married june 9!!I need advice about my ideas for my wedding!!?
Though technically you as the bride can pick any color you want. but you have to think about the perceptions of your family. if you go the black route i believe the family will think a few options 1) that you are goth 2)that you view your marriage as a death or 3) you are very weird.
As much as i would like to wear a dress other than white since white would make me look like a giant whale its the perceptions of the people around us that make us do the things we do. The real people to ask would be your family, and explain to them why you want this so.I need advice about my ideas for my wedding!!?
You can do whatever you want, but I think it's kind of dark. I am having a black/silver/red wedding, but my dress is pure white.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
In my opinion, the black and white theme looks very classy and modern. The only thing I would change is that instead of wearing a black wedding dress, consider a white wedding dress with black accents such as a wide black ribbon at the waist. This looks much more wedding-like, still fits within the black and white color theme, and I'm SURE your youth pastor will approve.
Another thing that you might want to consider is instead of purely red roses, adding in white roses in the bouquets. It would tie the red into the black and white theme.
Try the following sites and dress designs for inspiration. Good luck!
http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns鈥?/a>
http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns鈥?/a>
I would talk with your church that you're planning on being married in. Many churches and people will see all those decorations as being very GOTH, and while I've seen goth weddings, they have NOT been in a standard church. Many churches also have guidelines about dress for the bridal party. You can do whatever you want to, as long as you're paying for it though. If your mom's kicking in money (and I suspect she is) you better listen to her. Maybe have black trim on a white dress, I've seen some lovely gowns with black embroidery all over, they look really very striking. You could even do a gold or champagne colored dress, but again, you're working up against a deadline here.
Also, many places have regulations about open flames...so the candle idea may have to be in votives, or in hurricane lamps.
Also, if your wedding is June 9 of THIS year, your mom's right...you've got to get some of these details nailed down. It's all but too late to special order a dress and have it arrive in time, many locations will already have been booked. Many people book wedding locations (especially in JUNE) a year or more in advance. You need to do the following...very quickly.
1. Location
2. budget
3. guest list
4. wedding dress
5. bridesmaids dresses
6. florist
7. photographer
8. dj
9. caterer
These are all the things that need significant lead time up to the event. These are also people that are going to be booked earliest as well, since you're also dealing with a high school/college graduation overlap being so early in June. I wish you the best of luck.
It's wholly inappropriate and gross to even think about. If you don't want to or can't wear white, then wear blush, or not a traditional dress at all.
I think you need to do what makes you happiest. Although your plans are not traditional, they are what you want.
i don't know about a black dress.
Married in White, you have chosen right.
Married in Grey, you will go far away,
Married in Black, you will wish yourself back,
Married in Red, you will wish yourself dead,
Married in Green, ashamed to be seen,
Married in Blue, you will always be true,
Married in Pearl, you will live in a whirl,
Married in Yellow, ashamed of your fellow,
Married in Brown, you will live in the town,
Married in Pink, of you he'll think.
usually black is represented as a depressing color. but if you don't really care then go for it! just have a lil tidbit in your wedding program explaining why you have a black dress- it might be interesting.
what about a white/cream dress with black accents? a sash, flowers, lacing, etc
i think the decor sounds fine.
You might want to go with a white dress with black accents. I've seen this a couple of times %26amp; it's rather pretty. All black for a wedding dress tends to lend itself more towards Goth or Wiccan thinking.
YOUR WEDDING IS YOUR TIME.....You want a goth theme then hun go 4 it who cares what others think this is your one and hopefully only wedding so plan what you want.
Your memories of the day are what is most important. I think it sounds elegant and its 2007 hun what is so over done.
Congrats and good luck
My mother was married in black and her and my dad are still married... 40 years lady....
I would talk the pastor to make sure it's ok but it sounds fine to me.
not at all. They call weddings like that ';gothic style'; even though that may not be your theme. I went to a real gothic wedding last year and it was gorgeous. cheap too
If you are having the wedding in a church, you may want to discuss this with your pastor. It isn't your mother's wedding, so I suggest you get busy and get your plans in order. This is yours and your future husband's special day. Make it right for both of you. If anyone objects, they don't need to come to the wedding.
nontraditional(black dress) is unique and that is what makes this your wedding. i would go with what makes you happy. you are the one paying for it and you are the one who has that memory for the rest of your life!
~Well after all it is ';your day';...
But if you are going to have it in a Church... I would go with the traditional ';white'; wedding dress....
Because not to be mean or anything... But a black wedding dress screams ';GOTH';... and the last time I checked...
Goth and Church dont mix well!
The black dress is a no-go. It's your day but you want your guests to be positive. You could have the bridesmaid wear black dresses as well as the groomsmen. You dress could be any color really but white is a symbol of purity and happiness for the future. Maybe a white dress that has black accents on it. Black and white balloons and black table cloths will be ok as long as you add more color to it.. such as the rose petals you talk about. It'll look classy. When I hear your idea, I think 50th wedding anniversary but it'll work as a wedding also. Try adding silver accents to places throughout the wedding. It'll be nice. Good luck!
I am planning a friend's wedding right now and I must say that is kind of tacky I think you should wear a white dress and do everything else please think about it
all black, maybe. but it's your wedding. i'm getting married in december and my wedding dress is white with black details. i think as long as it doesnt look too gothic then no one should have a problem with it.
hope all goes well
My friend had a black and white winter wedding. She didn't wear an all black dress, but her white wedding dress had lots of black accents in it. It was very elegant.
I love the idea of black table cloths with maybe red fabric runners and rose petals.
My invitations were black, red, and white.
like others have said... it's your wedding, your special day, not anyone elses... I am planning mine for aug 4th, and got engaged just 2 weeks ago, and have almost everything already done, so don't worry about running out of time... it will fall into place. As for the black... wear what you want, but if you dress like your bridesmaids, you won't stand out like you are suppose to. If you do black table clothes, maybe have shorter white or red ones that drap a bit over them. My cousin had a red, black %26amp; white wedding and it was very tasteful. CONGRATS %26amp; GOOD LUCK... It's stressful, but oh so fun!!! I'm thrilled for you!
I need advice about a cannon camera!?
what do you think is the best camera !
( it has to be $200 or less)
thank you!I need advice about a cannon camera!?
A cannon is a military tool
I think you are referring to a Canon brand camera.
Look here and you will see which of them fit into your budget.
http://www.dpreview.com/reviews/specs/Ca鈥?/a>I need advice about a cannon camera!?
PowerShot A560top makeup
( it has to be $200 or less)
thank you!I need advice about a cannon camera!?
A cannon is a military tool
I think you are referring to a Canon brand camera.
Look here and you will see which of them fit into your budget.
http://www.dpreview.com/reviews/specs/Ca鈥?/a>I need advice about a cannon camera!?
PowerShot A560
I need advice about mortgages?
does anyone know the best place to start when looking for a mortgage? i want to know how much i would be able to get. any help would be greatly appreciated. thanksI need advice about mortgages?
Your best bet would be to join a Credit Union. Then inquire there.I need advice about mortgages?
Go to large bank (or mortgage company like CitiMortgage or WellsFargo, Universal Mortgage, etc) and sit down with someone and say that you want a pre-approval for a mortgage. They will want to pull your credit, know how much debt you have, and you income. Most definately shop around for the best rate. The rate is very important. Also a word of advice, don't spend the total amount you are pre-approved for. Just because the bank will give you that money doesn't mean you can ';actually afford it comfortably';, so do not over-extent yourself.
Happy mortgage/house hunting!
The best place to start is a local lender. Local lenders receive a strong amount of their business from referrals, so they have a vested stake in making sure you are satisfied. Also, local lenders will know about local programs that you may qualify for.
I am certain their are ethical, meticulous internet lenders out there, but I haven't found one. Many utilize a bait and switch tactic, promising a great mortgage package, only to send a different set of numbers to the closing table because the original package was ';not available any more'; or that you didn't qualify for that great package. They miss closing dates, screw things up and cause their fair share of gray hairs. The chances of you going back to Bob P. and MortgageMart.com are about zero, so he doesn't care if you are satisfied with his service or not, he makes his money on volume of loans, not referrals or repeat business.
As a word of caution, know your finances. I know I could go out today and get pre-qualified for way more mortgage than I could comfortably afford. So just because a lender tells you what you can qualify for, make sure you can afford it without eating mac and cheese every night. A lot of people got themselves into trouble by taking a lender's word about what they could get, and what they got was big trouble.
I would start by asking people you know who already own a home and who are responsible people and ask who their mortgage broker is. (Or ask your tax guy/real estate agent/lawyer/parents/boss who he uses)
Then call that broker and just start a dialpgue with them. You should feel comfortable with them, if not, ditch them. Use your common sense, if it smells fishy, it probably is.
Make sure you get all pricing quotes in writing. Go ahead and get a few different quotes from different brokers and compare. This way you know what others are offering and can feel safer about the choices you are given.
I like mtg brokers instead of single banks because they often have several banks they work with and can ';shop'; different banks for the best rate for you.
Good luck and watch out for fishy brokers %26amp; banks! Referrals are the best!!
Don't go through private mortgage companies, they are clearly only in the business to make money off of you, stick to a local bank with people who know your name, that you feel safe to trust their advice. The rate may be a little higher but they will generally do a much better job and help you make the best decision and manage your money well.
Good Luck!!
your better seeing your bank you have been with for years or a mortgage broker. you will need to provide wage slips and prove you have a snowy white credit history. unfortunatly just now no one can get a 100% mortgage you will prob need at least a 10% deposit. i think its something like 4 times your annual wage they will offer you, and 2 times your partners. i might be wrong, as it changes all the time. i am in the process of tryin to sell my 2 bedroom flat in north lanarkshire for fixed price of 拢70,000 if your interested,lol
You would be best finding a mortgage broker that is near you so you can the service that you want and need. Just look online or in your phone book and there will be plenty of offices. I've been in the mortgage business for ten years so if you ever have any questions or want to compare answers then just send me a quick email and I'll be happy to help.
In todays climate its hard to say how much you could get , good job security an a big deposit will be a major help , but 4 times your annual income might be harder gotten than a year ago , shop around but remember the bigger offers often come with a premium interest rate often tied for the first 5 years
in Canada we just go to the bank they will determine how much you qualify for , right now is not a good time to get a mortgage unless you have a VERY secure job, in a couple of years things will be better
Actually you can go online, just type in mortgage calcultor in the search engine.. and it will bring them uo, that will tell you how much you can afford.
speak to a mortgage advisor, they dont charge and will have up to date information,
most estate agents have one tied to them
Someone like - http://www.mortgagebroker.co.uk/
Though your bank would be the best place to start.
Banks don't give mortgages any more...
America is turning into hell
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zS6aAN2Ps鈥?/a>
this guy is a banker.
have a look at moneysupermarket
bank of america
try here http://www.cohomesandloans.com/forms/pur鈥?/a>
Your best bet would be to join a Credit Union. Then inquire there.I need advice about mortgages?
Go to large bank (or mortgage company like CitiMortgage or WellsFargo, Universal Mortgage, etc) and sit down with someone and say that you want a pre-approval for a mortgage. They will want to pull your credit, know how much debt you have, and you income. Most definately shop around for the best rate. The rate is very important. Also a word of advice, don't spend the total amount you are pre-approved for. Just because the bank will give you that money doesn't mean you can ';actually afford it comfortably';, so do not over-extent yourself.
Happy mortgage/house hunting!
The best place to start is a local lender. Local lenders receive a strong amount of their business from referrals, so they have a vested stake in making sure you are satisfied. Also, local lenders will know about local programs that you may qualify for.
I am certain their are ethical, meticulous internet lenders out there, but I haven't found one. Many utilize a bait and switch tactic, promising a great mortgage package, only to send a different set of numbers to the closing table because the original package was ';not available any more'; or that you didn't qualify for that great package. They miss closing dates, screw things up and cause their fair share of gray hairs. The chances of you going back to Bob P. and MortgageMart.com are about zero, so he doesn't care if you are satisfied with his service or not, he makes his money on volume of loans, not referrals or repeat business.
As a word of caution, know your finances. I know I could go out today and get pre-qualified for way more mortgage than I could comfortably afford. So just because a lender tells you what you can qualify for, make sure you can afford it without eating mac and cheese every night. A lot of people got themselves into trouble by taking a lender's word about what they could get, and what they got was big trouble.
I would start by asking people you know who already own a home and who are responsible people and ask who their mortgage broker is. (Or ask your tax guy/real estate agent/lawyer/parents/boss who he uses)
Then call that broker and just start a dialpgue with them. You should feel comfortable with them, if not, ditch them. Use your common sense, if it smells fishy, it probably is.
Make sure you get all pricing quotes in writing. Go ahead and get a few different quotes from different brokers and compare. This way you know what others are offering and can feel safer about the choices you are given.
I like mtg brokers instead of single banks because they often have several banks they work with and can ';shop'; different banks for the best rate for you.
Good luck and watch out for fishy brokers %26amp; banks! Referrals are the best!!
Don't go through private mortgage companies, they are clearly only in the business to make money off of you, stick to a local bank with people who know your name, that you feel safe to trust their advice. The rate may be a little higher but they will generally do a much better job and help you make the best decision and manage your money well.
Good Luck!!
your better seeing your bank you have been with for years or a mortgage broker. you will need to provide wage slips and prove you have a snowy white credit history. unfortunatly just now no one can get a 100% mortgage you will prob need at least a 10% deposit. i think its something like 4 times your annual wage they will offer you, and 2 times your partners. i might be wrong, as it changes all the time. i am in the process of tryin to sell my 2 bedroom flat in north lanarkshire for fixed price of 拢70,000 if your interested,lol
You would be best finding a mortgage broker that is near you so you can the service that you want and need. Just look online or in your phone book and there will be plenty of offices. I've been in the mortgage business for ten years so if you ever have any questions or want to compare answers then just send me a quick email and I'll be happy to help.
In todays climate its hard to say how much you could get , good job security an a big deposit will be a major help , but 4 times your annual income might be harder gotten than a year ago , shop around but remember the bigger offers often come with a premium interest rate often tied for the first 5 years
in Canada we just go to the bank they will determine how much you qualify for , right now is not a good time to get a mortgage unless you have a VERY secure job, in a couple of years things will be better
Actually you can go online, just type in mortgage calcultor in the search engine.. and it will bring them uo, that will tell you how much you can afford.
speak to a mortgage advisor, they dont charge and will have up to date information,
most estate agents have one tied to them
Someone like - http://www.mortgagebroker.co.uk/
Though your bank would be the best place to start.
Banks don't give mortgages any more...
America is turning into hell
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zS6aAN2Ps鈥?/a>
this guy is a banker.
have a look at moneysupermarket
bank of america
try here http://www.cohomesandloans.com/forms/pur鈥?/a>
I had ask for advice about my cat last night and got some good answers, so i took everyone's advice and took
her to the vet and found out she did have a infection,and blood in her urine and they gave her antibiocs and some new food for her to eat.I had ask for advice about my cat last night and got some good answers, so i took everyone's advice and took
so glad you listened, but remember if your animal is sick don't ask here, go to the vet first. thanks for being a great pet momI had ask for advice about my cat last night and got some good answers, so i took everyone's advice and took
my cat found it hard to pee and he got blood in his urine. he has what a lot of young male cats have which is a build up of salts and other stuff that forms a paste in his bladder blocking the tube the urine needs to come out of. he got this build up from regular cat food so now he is on a healthy badder diet. he has had his bladder and kidneys washed out twice and he is looking good on the diet but it it often a reoccurring thing.
good luck
Urinary infection is common in cats for some reason. Hope kitty does OK. Take the vet's advice and give her lots of love.
so glad you listened, but remember if your animal is sick don't ask here, go to the vet first. thanks for being a great pet momI had ask for advice about my cat last night and got some good answers, so i took everyone's advice and took
my cat found it hard to pee and he got blood in his urine. he has what a lot of young male cats have which is a build up of salts and other stuff that forms a paste in his bladder blocking the tube the urine needs to come out of. he got this build up from regular cat food so now he is on a healthy badder diet. he has had his bladder and kidneys washed out twice and he is looking good on the diet but it it often a reoccurring thing.
good luck
Urinary infection is common in cats for some reason. Hope kitty does OK. Take the vet's advice and give her lots of love.
I need advice about a boy that i like?
k so at school there is this guy. i kind of have a kindergarten crush on him but one thing is he knows my older sister. and he will talk to me in the class period but out side of the class he never does. so i don't know if he likes me or not. but he always waves to me when he enters the room and we some times talks but yeah can anyone helpI need advice about a boy that i like?
Trust me, I can relate; I'm going through the same thing.
I have a crush on a guy in the class that I TA for.
His desk is directly facing the teacher's desk, which is where I sit.
He talks to me nonstop during class but never outside of class, even though he has my cell number and my Myspace.
Don't expect him to suddenly become interested in you outside of class, because he's only looking for a chance to flirt during class.
If a guy is really into you, he'll talk to you any chance he gets.
It can feel like mixed signals, but he only has one intention.I need advice about a boy that i like?
Try to get to know him better and try flirting with him sayin playfully like u like his hair or somethin and once you get to know him better you can find out if he likes you by asking a friend to ask or even from flirting a lot after, (i dont know if you would ask a guy out or not) but if you kno him better you can even say like playfullt thou ';sooo you like me?'; n then go from there. But who knos..maybe its just a crush you'll get over in a little bit..but try it and you'll see too if you like him thattt much or not. Good luck!
when he talks to you in class go up to him and ask him to see if he wants to hang out some time talk to him when you see him don't leave it down to him to say something first go up there show your not afraid to do so
good luck :)
do you catch him staring at you? Try to start more conversations with him, does he act nervous? Whenever I'm around guys I like, I get extremely self concious and all of a sudden act like a klutz. Like for example, this guy I like just switched lunch tables because his table got into some sort of trouble and had to move, so now his table is right next to mine. Most of the time now I'm a slob when I eat, sorta. I am at least a lot more self concious now that he sit about 5 feet away most of the time
He sounds like he is just making a class room friend. You should find more things in common with him. Then you could met up doing the same things... like if he goes to foot ball games, or if he is at track meets. Find a group activity and invite him along.
no i dont think he likes you if he did he wouldnt be afraid to say hi to u in the hall
or maybe u should say hi in the hall way so he knows that u say hi to him and c if he says hi bak or something
k so well like just be sure like he sees you looking at him like ok you sort of like him and OK he will see you and OK like be sure to see him too.
yeah how old are you but i would probably make the first move, guys like that better
sounds like you need to get your sister to hook you up or at least let him know you like him
/????
You should wait for some more obvious signs.
if you really want him, offer him your soul. he would incense into you.
just keep talking to him and text him;)
What does that have to do with ur sister?
how old are you?
He just want to talk to you everyday'; so if he continues don't talk and then you can enjoy your own time of being your self.
Trust me, I can relate; I'm going through the same thing.
I have a crush on a guy in the class that I TA for.
His desk is directly facing the teacher's desk, which is where I sit.
He talks to me nonstop during class but never outside of class, even though he has my cell number and my Myspace.
Don't expect him to suddenly become interested in you outside of class, because he's only looking for a chance to flirt during class.
If a guy is really into you, he'll talk to you any chance he gets.
It can feel like mixed signals, but he only has one intention.I need advice about a boy that i like?
Try to get to know him better and try flirting with him sayin playfully like u like his hair or somethin and once you get to know him better you can find out if he likes you by asking a friend to ask or even from flirting a lot after, (i dont know if you would ask a guy out or not) but if you kno him better you can even say like playfullt thou ';sooo you like me?'; n then go from there. But who knos..maybe its just a crush you'll get over in a little bit..but try it and you'll see too if you like him thattt much or not. Good luck!
when he talks to you in class go up to him and ask him to see if he wants to hang out some time talk to him when you see him don't leave it down to him to say something first go up there show your not afraid to do so
good luck :)
do you catch him staring at you? Try to start more conversations with him, does he act nervous? Whenever I'm around guys I like, I get extremely self concious and all of a sudden act like a klutz. Like for example, this guy I like just switched lunch tables because his table got into some sort of trouble and had to move, so now his table is right next to mine. Most of the time now I'm a slob when I eat, sorta. I am at least a lot more self concious now that he sit about 5 feet away most of the time
He sounds like he is just making a class room friend. You should find more things in common with him. Then you could met up doing the same things... like if he goes to foot ball games, or if he is at track meets. Find a group activity and invite him along.
no i dont think he likes you if he did he wouldnt be afraid to say hi to u in the hall
or maybe u should say hi in the hall way so he knows that u say hi to him and c if he says hi bak or something
k so well like just be sure like he sees you looking at him like ok you sort of like him and OK he will see you and OK like be sure to see him too.
yeah how old are you but i would probably make the first move, guys like that better
sounds like you need to get your sister to hook you up or at least let him know you like him
/????
You should wait for some more obvious signs.
if you really want him, offer him your soul. he would incense into you.
just keep talking to him and text him;)
What does that have to do with ur sister?
how old are you?
He just want to talk to you everyday'; so if he continues don't talk and then you can enjoy your own time of being your self.
Mature/experience folks- do you have any advice for young adults about fulfillment and happiness?
if you could turn back time, how would you do things differently about professional life, family life, love life, etc in a way that builds happiness and fulfillment? or maybe you look back fondly at what you did do?
what advice would you give to someone in the late 20s that wants to live a long healthy and happy life?Mature/experience folks- do you have any advice for young adults about fulfillment and happiness?
1. Always address the source of your unhappiness.
2. Recognize the connection between mind and body.
3. Be self-aware. Learn how you sabotage your happiness and successes in those areas.
4. Learn to let go.
5. Surround yourself with positive people. Limit your contact with negative people including complainers, whiners and drama queens.
6. Consider that any problem is an opportunity.
7. Surround yourself with people who you are compatible with. (Not interests) A shy person and a social person will have ongoing conflict and difficulties.
8. Learn from the experience of others. Don't repeat someone else's mistakes just to have the experience.
9. Learn to clear your mind of clutter. A weekly house cleaning of troublesome thoughts is highly beneficial.Mature/experience folks- do you have any advice for young adults about fulfillment and happiness?
Recall the successful business man in ';The Graduate'; who advised the recent college grad: ';plastics';
My advice to you is: solar
alcohol and a steady lay, what more do you need?
The past you live is what makes you who you are today, The trials bring growth, the painful times bring purging and strength, the happy bring fond memories. For me I just remember two things... there is only one person I HAVE to live with my whole life..me. As long as I can look in the mirror and like who I see, I can be happy. The other is that at the end of this life there is one Other who gets to say if he was happy with me...;-)
I think one thing that is very important to have something that you are both very interested in. It could be a church or something like, hiking, water gardening (Koi), golfing, bicycling, art in some form, flying a plane...well, be creative.
After we have been married for many years, to enjoy a common interest, creates a bond. It's a passion you share!
You will fill your years with fond memories, videos, photos, much laughter. It makes for a healthy relationship!
My husband and I have had our spiritual growth in common...we talk endlessly of the latest book we have read, etc. We also are also both painters and have fun hanging our work all around the house. We look like a gallery, here!
Of course, we have had our family and pets...they kept us pretty busy for a long while.
To find out your 'personality types' through Meyer's/Briggs is a real good idea. It honestly does help you to get more of an inside view of your partner...it helps not to step on toes over and over again. We did this and it has helped us a lot.
Don't go into debt...not overly...it causes arguments. And, of course, you know a healthy sex life and emotional support are most important!!
Don't ever be afraid to seek counseling if things seem strained. Living together can be tough and great...it's a mixture! Much happiness to you!
i would stress how important it is to love yourself...and more importantly to love being WITH yourself...that means you dont have to have someone to love you back (youre healthier when you dont NEED love), you love what you DO and you love who you are becoming.....its an awful life when youre unhappy being alone (that WILL happen), hate your job and you arent using your talents to discover more of yourself.
The only lasting fullfillment and happiness in life is found in your relationship with God. Be you christian,jew, atheist, voodoo, muslim, etc.
Meditation. Everything you need you have. Taking time out from all the crap is the best way to access it. you get better and better and being internally happy, and things don't bother you like they used to. It translates to every other area of your life on its own.
I would change nothing about my past if I had my life to live again. I have had a rich full life and am happy, healthy and positive.
I would recommend that you travel. Be sure you have a good education. But I think the most important thing is that you keep an open mind with a good attitude.
My advise is to keep your eyes open and see and learn all you can. The more things you know, the more you can do. Focus is good, but always try new things. Learning is one key to happiness.
Love unconditionally. Do not put expectations in your gift of love, give it freely.
Listen! If you listen to what people are saying, not just their words, but between the lines, you will communicate better. This will help your relationships.
what advice would you give to someone in the late 20s that wants to live a long healthy and happy life?Mature/experience folks- do you have any advice for young adults about fulfillment and happiness?
1. Always address the source of your unhappiness.
2. Recognize the connection between mind and body.
3. Be self-aware. Learn how you sabotage your happiness and successes in those areas.
4. Learn to let go.
5. Surround yourself with positive people. Limit your contact with negative people including complainers, whiners and drama queens.
6. Consider that any problem is an opportunity.
7. Surround yourself with people who you are compatible with. (Not interests) A shy person and a social person will have ongoing conflict and difficulties.
8. Learn from the experience of others. Don't repeat someone else's mistakes just to have the experience.
9. Learn to clear your mind of clutter. A weekly house cleaning of troublesome thoughts is highly beneficial.Mature/experience folks- do you have any advice for young adults about fulfillment and happiness?
Recall the successful business man in ';The Graduate'; who advised the recent college grad: ';plastics';
My advice to you is: solar
alcohol and a steady lay, what more do you need?
The past you live is what makes you who you are today, The trials bring growth, the painful times bring purging and strength, the happy bring fond memories. For me I just remember two things... there is only one person I HAVE to live with my whole life..me. As long as I can look in the mirror and like who I see, I can be happy. The other is that at the end of this life there is one Other who gets to say if he was happy with me...;-)
I think one thing that is very important to have something that you are both very interested in. It could be a church or something like, hiking, water gardening (Koi), golfing, bicycling, art in some form, flying a plane...well, be creative.
After we have been married for many years, to enjoy a common interest, creates a bond. It's a passion you share!
You will fill your years with fond memories, videos, photos, much laughter. It makes for a healthy relationship!
My husband and I have had our spiritual growth in common...we talk endlessly of the latest book we have read, etc. We also are also both painters and have fun hanging our work all around the house. We look like a gallery, here!
Of course, we have had our family and pets...they kept us pretty busy for a long while.
To find out your 'personality types' through Meyer's/Briggs is a real good idea. It honestly does help you to get more of an inside view of your partner...it helps not to step on toes over and over again. We did this and it has helped us a lot.
Don't go into debt...not overly...it causes arguments. And, of course, you know a healthy sex life and emotional support are most important!!
Don't ever be afraid to seek counseling if things seem strained. Living together can be tough and great...it's a mixture! Much happiness to you!
i would stress how important it is to love yourself...and more importantly to love being WITH yourself...that means you dont have to have someone to love you back (youre healthier when you dont NEED love), you love what you DO and you love who you are becoming.....its an awful life when youre unhappy being alone (that WILL happen), hate your job and you arent using your talents to discover more of yourself.
The only lasting fullfillment and happiness in life is found in your relationship with God. Be you christian,jew, atheist, voodoo, muslim, etc.
Meditation. Everything you need you have. Taking time out from all the crap is the best way to access it. you get better and better and being internally happy, and things don't bother you like they used to. It translates to every other area of your life on its own.
I would change nothing about my past if I had my life to live again. I have had a rich full life and am happy, healthy and positive.
I would recommend that you travel. Be sure you have a good education. But I think the most important thing is that you keep an open mind with a good attitude.
My advise is to keep your eyes open and see and learn all you can. The more things you know, the more you can do. Focus is good, but always try new things. Learning is one key to happiness.
Love unconditionally. Do not put expectations in your gift of love, give it freely.
Listen! If you listen to what people are saying, not just their words, but between the lines, you will communicate better. This will help your relationships.
Please Help Single Mom Needs Advice about Auto Accident?
On 4/6 I was sitting at a stop light in my Eclipse had some sort of SUV in front of me and was hit from behind without warning by a ford f250.I am told that the rear end of my car was lifted off the ground the spoiler and trunk removed and I was pushed under the SUV in front of me all I remember is the glass shattering. I was transported to the ER had numerous tests no broken bones but plenty of neck and back pain, the worst part is that in 2001 I had back surgery (a cage to replace a disc in my low back) and I was feeling great now this is where I am feeling alot of pain. I work in an alzheimer unit at an assisted living facility I am obviously not going to go back until I heal I am a single mom living paycheck to paycheck ...what do people do when they can't work after an accident how am I gonna feed my kids??? Any information will be much appreciated I have contacted an attorney but have to wait till Monday if u have had this happen to u please give me some hope. Thanks JackiePlease Help Single Mom Needs Advice about Auto Accident?
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, however, this is one of those where you have to decide whether to do what you have to do to feed your kids or stay at home and worry about how you're gonna feed your kids.
If you're hiring an attorney, if they haven't already you told you how it works, it works like this....he'll settle your case when you're done treating. You incur all expenses associated with your medical treatment, or if he's shady, he'll tell the medical doctors to treat you on a lien. He can't pay your bills feed your kids or front you any money....no one will. How you feed your kids and pay your bills is something you have to deal with. Once your case settles...that's when you'll receive money and not a penny before hand.
If your doctors sign a disability form you may be able to recieve disability benefits from your state or your employer, so I would check with your HR department to see how those benefits work, assuming you qualify for them.Please Help Single Mom Needs Advice about Auto Accident?
Well, now that you have hired a lawyer any advice we give you is worthless. If this had happened to me I would have filed a claim with my personal med insurance and disability insurance and worked with the claims adjuster until he/she made me an offer (of course, now you will never, ever know what that would have been). Who knows? You may require surgery, theraphy, etc. This could possibly exhaust the other person's insurance limits -- and now your lawyer will get 40% of that. He/she/it will also drag this out for months (or years) trying to soak you for as much billing as possible. Make no mistake, lawyers work for themselves 100% of the time -- no exceptions. You are a cockroach to them, they do not care about you, they don't want to hear from you and they think everyone in the world is beneath them. Insurance companies are bound by law not to deal directly with you now that you are represented. I only pray that your scum lawyer hasn't promised you the moon.
PS - insurance companies are NOT afraid of lawyers.
Good luck.
I'll tell ya what. it will get worse be fore it gets better. Contact the local church and local temporary welfare/foodstamp place. Think about food centers. don't be afraid to ask family freinds for assistance. Make sure your hounding the guy with the F-250's insurance company 3 times a day writing down every bit of information. You should be on the phone every waking business hour trying to get food, money for bills, resolve your insurance claim and get disability started. I don't know how disability works, contact your unemployment office about that.
Why dont you ask your attorney... since you ran and got one right away? You do realize that with that attorney you have now delayed payment on your claim for likely atleast a year if not several? Attorneys dont care how long it takes before they settle- they just care about getting money. What are you going to do in the meantime? You know you dont get payments fromt he at fault party right? You get one final settlement when everything is said and done. How are you going to afford living expenses in the meantime?
Its saddens me when i see people run off to attorneys before they need to. You could be feeling fine in two weeks and settle the case with the insurance company and move on your life... now youve sentenced yourself for years to come with no settlement.
Again another ? that was asked without telling us what state you are in. If we know what state you are in we could provide better help. OK, I'm done complaining now. So let me suggest the following
1. If you have insurance check your policy to see if has any coverages that might provide for some lost wage coverage. Look for a Personal Injury Protection Coverage (PIP). In some states (Minnesota comes to mind) PIP coverage will pay partial wage loss from your own policy if a DR. disables you.It's not your decision to decide that you can't work under this type of coverage.
2. If no such coverage is available the next best place to look is at work. Check with your employer to see if you have any disability insurance provided through work.
3. If 1%26amp; 2 are feasible then you will need to ask the attorney on Monday for their advice since they will know what the options are in your state.
4. Don't listen to la42882 they are clueless. I spent 15 years working at insurance companies settling injury claims. I hate injury lawyers more than anybody, HOWEVER, there are cases where having one is a good thing. I think your case may be one since you still have to support and feed your family.
5. In most states, any coverage for lost wages will have to come from one of your policies. The insurance for the guy that hit you will not pay your med bills or lost wages on an ongoing basis. They will settle the claim with a ';lump sum'; payment in exchange for a release of all claims.
Goof Luck.
Depending upon the labor laws in your state, you may be eligible for some sort of compensation for your injuries while they hold your job for you.
Monday do all of the following:
Contact your local Red Cross office (they should have a 24 hour number) and ask for an appointment to arrange temporary help for your family. They can more than likely assist with food, money for your housing payment and in some cases help you find temporary transportation for your appointments.
Call your doctor and ask him if your condition will require him signing a waiver for you to get government assistance/health care coverage.
Contact your insurance company and see if they have any provisions for payments for your loss of income.
If you have a local church family, ask your minister or pastor for some assistance to help tide your family over during this difficult time. They may even have a food pantry in your church that can help with feeding your children.
Make sure on Monday to get a copy of the police department accident report and copies of your medical reports from both the ambulance company and the emergency room. Your attorney can do this if you sign the paperwork authorizing him/her to be your representative.
If photographs were taken, obtain copies of them.
I hope this helps.
Since you have contacted an attorney, ask him any questions you might have regarding what to do in your situation. By doing that, you gave up your right to ask here.
depending on the severity of the injury, and the type of insurance coverage you have, you may be able to get some assistance from your insurance company. if you have either pip or medical in your car policy, file claims for bills you recieve, and use the money to support yourself as best you can. the other insurance will not settle unless it's a single lump sum, part for auto liability, which you can handle yourself by either filing on your policy or the other party for property damage alone to the car. the personal injury is another matter and should be handled as a seperate claim altogether. if physical problems are severe, have the attorney handle just that and not the property damage. he will collect from 33 1/3 to 40% of the award plus expenses. he shpould be a good liability attorney, not just an attorney. the difference is that most liability attorneys can handsle the personal injury portion and get a larger award.
do not make the mistake of settling too soon since it will give you a lower award. if it has to go to court, it will take as long as five years so be prepared to wait.
if you have disability insurance at work, file on it immediately. it will provide some income. if you are paying for disability insurance for long term, it will be enough to keep you going for as long as you are disabled, and it is also non-ytaxable since you are paying for it. short term disability is usually paid for by the employer and is for about six months and provides about 0% of your salary. long term is from six months onward and is usually ggoing to provide full salary benefits as long as you are disabled. if your disability is permanent, and certified as such by a doctor, you can file for social security disability whoich will be paid to you monthly and will also give you an allowance for each child. but you cannot collect ssdi for a minimum of six months from the time of the disability.
hopoe this helps, and best wishes.
You have done the right thing by immediately contacting an attorney for assistance in dealing with the insurance companies.
As for loss of work, the doctors providing you treatment should be willing to provide written notice that you are unable to perform the functions of your job due to the car accident. This will help you recover money from the responsible insurance co. for your time off of work. Documentation is key here. After you return to work, it would be good for your employer to provide a breakdown of how much time you were off of work and your hourly rate so that the total amount of lost wages can be calculated.
Check with your employer and see if they have any short term disability that would replace part of your wages.
I'm not real big on lawsuits and lawyers. But call one first thing tomorrow morning. This sounds like one of those times that it would be best to seek legal counsel and to have a lawyer working in your best interests. An insurance company works in THEIR best interests (so pain/sufferning/out of work is not as important to them as you). Open up your phone book, and there's no doubt a lawyer that would take on your case.
Check into government assistance. People like you who don't work when you can't work are the ones who should take advantage of welfare.
depending on the laws in your state you may be able for some sort of compensation.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, however, this is one of those where you have to decide whether to do what you have to do to feed your kids or stay at home and worry about how you're gonna feed your kids.
If you're hiring an attorney, if they haven't already you told you how it works, it works like this....he'll settle your case when you're done treating. You incur all expenses associated with your medical treatment, or if he's shady, he'll tell the medical doctors to treat you on a lien. He can't pay your bills feed your kids or front you any money....no one will. How you feed your kids and pay your bills is something you have to deal with. Once your case settles...that's when you'll receive money and not a penny before hand.
If your doctors sign a disability form you may be able to recieve disability benefits from your state or your employer, so I would check with your HR department to see how those benefits work, assuming you qualify for them.Please Help Single Mom Needs Advice about Auto Accident?
Well, now that you have hired a lawyer any advice we give you is worthless. If this had happened to me I would have filed a claim with my personal med insurance and disability insurance and worked with the claims adjuster until he/she made me an offer (of course, now you will never, ever know what that would have been). Who knows? You may require surgery, theraphy, etc. This could possibly exhaust the other person's insurance limits -- and now your lawyer will get 40% of that. He/she/it will also drag this out for months (or years) trying to soak you for as much billing as possible. Make no mistake, lawyers work for themselves 100% of the time -- no exceptions. You are a cockroach to them, they do not care about you, they don't want to hear from you and they think everyone in the world is beneath them. Insurance companies are bound by law not to deal directly with you now that you are represented. I only pray that your scum lawyer hasn't promised you the moon.
PS - insurance companies are NOT afraid of lawyers.
Good luck.
I'll tell ya what. it will get worse be fore it gets better. Contact the local church and local temporary welfare/foodstamp place. Think about food centers. don't be afraid to ask family freinds for assistance. Make sure your hounding the guy with the F-250's insurance company 3 times a day writing down every bit of information. You should be on the phone every waking business hour trying to get food, money for bills, resolve your insurance claim and get disability started. I don't know how disability works, contact your unemployment office about that.
Why dont you ask your attorney... since you ran and got one right away? You do realize that with that attorney you have now delayed payment on your claim for likely atleast a year if not several? Attorneys dont care how long it takes before they settle- they just care about getting money. What are you going to do in the meantime? You know you dont get payments fromt he at fault party right? You get one final settlement when everything is said and done. How are you going to afford living expenses in the meantime?
Its saddens me when i see people run off to attorneys before they need to. You could be feeling fine in two weeks and settle the case with the insurance company and move on your life... now youve sentenced yourself for years to come with no settlement.
Again another ? that was asked without telling us what state you are in. If we know what state you are in we could provide better help. OK, I'm done complaining now. So let me suggest the following
1. If you have insurance check your policy to see if has any coverages that might provide for some lost wage coverage. Look for a Personal Injury Protection Coverage (PIP). In some states (Minnesota comes to mind) PIP coverage will pay partial wage loss from your own policy if a DR. disables you.It's not your decision to decide that you can't work under this type of coverage.
2. If no such coverage is available the next best place to look is at work. Check with your employer to see if you have any disability insurance provided through work.
3. If 1%26amp; 2 are feasible then you will need to ask the attorney on Monday for their advice since they will know what the options are in your state.
4. Don't listen to la42882 they are clueless. I spent 15 years working at insurance companies settling injury claims. I hate injury lawyers more than anybody, HOWEVER, there are cases where having one is a good thing. I think your case may be one since you still have to support and feed your family.
5. In most states, any coverage for lost wages will have to come from one of your policies. The insurance for the guy that hit you will not pay your med bills or lost wages on an ongoing basis. They will settle the claim with a ';lump sum'; payment in exchange for a release of all claims.
Goof Luck.
Depending upon the labor laws in your state, you may be eligible for some sort of compensation for your injuries while they hold your job for you.
Monday do all of the following:
Contact your local Red Cross office (they should have a 24 hour number) and ask for an appointment to arrange temporary help for your family. They can more than likely assist with food, money for your housing payment and in some cases help you find temporary transportation for your appointments.
Call your doctor and ask him if your condition will require him signing a waiver for you to get government assistance/health care coverage.
Contact your insurance company and see if they have any provisions for payments for your loss of income.
If you have a local church family, ask your minister or pastor for some assistance to help tide your family over during this difficult time. They may even have a food pantry in your church that can help with feeding your children.
Make sure on Monday to get a copy of the police department accident report and copies of your medical reports from both the ambulance company and the emergency room. Your attorney can do this if you sign the paperwork authorizing him/her to be your representative.
If photographs were taken, obtain copies of them.
I hope this helps.
Since you have contacted an attorney, ask him any questions you might have regarding what to do in your situation. By doing that, you gave up your right to ask here.
depending on the severity of the injury, and the type of insurance coverage you have, you may be able to get some assistance from your insurance company. if you have either pip or medical in your car policy, file claims for bills you recieve, and use the money to support yourself as best you can. the other insurance will not settle unless it's a single lump sum, part for auto liability, which you can handle yourself by either filing on your policy or the other party for property damage alone to the car. the personal injury is another matter and should be handled as a seperate claim altogether. if physical problems are severe, have the attorney handle just that and not the property damage. he will collect from 33 1/3 to 40% of the award plus expenses. he shpould be a good liability attorney, not just an attorney. the difference is that most liability attorneys can handsle the personal injury portion and get a larger award.
do not make the mistake of settling too soon since it will give you a lower award. if it has to go to court, it will take as long as five years so be prepared to wait.
if you have disability insurance at work, file on it immediately. it will provide some income. if you are paying for disability insurance for long term, it will be enough to keep you going for as long as you are disabled, and it is also non-ytaxable since you are paying for it. short term disability is usually paid for by the employer and is for about six months and provides about 0% of your salary. long term is from six months onward and is usually ggoing to provide full salary benefits as long as you are disabled. if your disability is permanent, and certified as such by a doctor, you can file for social security disability whoich will be paid to you monthly and will also give you an allowance for each child. but you cannot collect ssdi for a minimum of six months from the time of the disability.
hopoe this helps, and best wishes.
You have done the right thing by immediately contacting an attorney for assistance in dealing with the insurance companies.
As for loss of work, the doctors providing you treatment should be willing to provide written notice that you are unable to perform the functions of your job due to the car accident. This will help you recover money from the responsible insurance co. for your time off of work. Documentation is key here. After you return to work, it would be good for your employer to provide a breakdown of how much time you were off of work and your hourly rate so that the total amount of lost wages can be calculated.
Check with your employer and see if they have any short term disability that would replace part of your wages.
I'm not real big on lawsuits and lawyers. But call one first thing tomorrow morning. This sounds like one of those times that it would be best to seek legal counsel and to have a lawyer working in your best interests. An insurance company works in THEIR best interests (so pain/sufferning/out of work is not as important to them as you). Open up your phone book, and there's no doubt a lawyer that would take on your case.
Check into government assistance. People like you who don't work when you can't work are the ones who should take advantage of welfare.
depending on the laws in your state you may be able for some sort of compensation.
PLEASE HELP!!! I need some advice about english. its a yes or no question.?
im doing a report about yellow fever. its needs to have 3 body paragraphs. what order should i put them in?
1) Explaination of Yellow fever
2) How Yellow fever arrvied to America
3)The Impact, The Cure
should i keep it in that order, or change it? please please please help me asap!PLEASE HELP!!! I need some advice about english. its a yes or no question.?
I'd keep it in the same order. Explaining yellow fever defines the topic so that the audience knows what you're talking about as you advance the theme.PLEASE HELP!!! I need some advice about english. its a yes or no question.?
I think you should keep it in that order because the 1st paragraph introduces what it actually is and then how it arrived and what the cure is.
it should go in this order...how yellow fever arrived in america then explanation of yellow fever then lastly the impact, the cure. does that sound good? we had to do the same thing in grade school.
Keep it in that order. It's in a logical format. It gives you back ground on what it is, tells you the history of it, and then the present/future.
I would do how yellow fever arrived to America then the Explanation then impact, the cure!! Just so the audience knows how it got to america.
Write How the yellow fever arrived
than Explain
Than The impact, The cure
I vote with the same order folks on this.
ye it sounds good i am in %26amp;th grade and i get As in englishtop makeup
1) Explaination of Yellow fever
2) How Yellow fever arrvied to America
3)The Impact, The Cure
should i keep it in that order, or change it? please please please help me asap!PLEASE HELP!!! I need some advice about english. its a yes or no question.?
I'd keep it in the same order. Explaining yellow fever defines the topic so that the audience knows what you're talking about as you advance the theme.PLEASE HELP!!! I need some advice about english. its a yes or no question.?
I think you should keep it in that order because the 1st paragraph introduces what it actually is and then how it arrived and what the cure is.
it should go in this order...how yellow fever arrived in america then explanation of yellow fever then lastly the impact, the cure. does that sound good? we had to do the same thing in grade school.
Keep it in that order. It's in a logical format. It gives you back ground on what it is, tells you the history of it, and then the present/future.
I would do how yellow fever arrived to America then the Explanation then impact, the cure!! Just so the audience knows how it got to america.
Write How the yellow fever arrived
than Explain
Than The impact, The cure
I vote with the same order folks on this.
ye it sounds good i am in %26amp;th grade and i get As in english
Can you give me good advice about guys in general please!!!Anything you want!?
I'm 16 btwCan you give me good advice about guys in general please!!!Anything you want!?
make sure they actually are into you and not just in for the sex n stuff.
dont be too clingy, too emotional and too overbaring, give men space.
compliment them bout their manly traits, and look for a man who is willing to hear your input and whut u have to say...:)
make sure they actually are into you and not just in for the sex n stuff.
dont be too clingy, too emotional and too overbaring, give men space.
compliment them bout their manly traits, and look for a man who is willing to hear your input and whut u have to say...:)
Advice needed about this company?
Hi, am just about to register with this company. http://freeshares.escape.to/ Has anyone had any dealings with them?. They appear honest enough and they don't appear to charge anything for the free shares. Any advice appreciated. Thanks in advance.Advice needed about this company?
Assuming you are in the U.S. check with the better business bureau, check with your state's consumer affairs division to see if they have been reported for wrongdoings, check with the Department of Revenue Services to see if they are licensed to do business and if they are, check with the state's attorney general's office to see if they have been charged with any crime. Buyer beware, nothing is free. The charge is hidden somewhere. Read the fine print. One more thing, this sounds like a time share program. If it is ask them for references and how long they have been in business. Good luckAdvice needed about this company?
Use your loaf.
My best advice, there is no free lunch. Somewhere, someday you will pay.
Is .to Tonga?
If that doesn't tell you to beware, perhaps this does
BEWARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Assuming you are in the U.S. check with the better business bureau, check with your state's consumer affairs division to see if they have been reported for wrongdoings, check with the Department of Revenue Services to see if they are licensed to do business and if they are, check with the state's attorney general's office to see if they have been charged with any crime. Buyer beware, nothing is free. The charge is hidden somewhere. Read the fine print. One more thing, this sounds like a time share program. If it is ask them for references and how long they have been in business. Good luckAdvice needed about this company?
Use your loaf.
My best advice, there is no free lunch. Somewhere, someday you will pay.
Is .to Tonga?
If that doesn't tell you to beware, perhaps this does
BEWARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
To all artists out there, can you pls give me some advice/tips about this:?
Right now there are lots of things that i want to draw, but i couldn't even start a sketch because i'm not in mood, which i often encounters whenever i'm drawing(considered the worst of my worst enemies...). Can you pls give me some.. well, advice?, that can inspire/help me to bring back my mood? I know you often encountered such situations like this so i hope that you relate with me.
That's all and, tahnks in advance.. ^_^To all artists out there, can you pls give me some advice/tips about this:?
Go to your local Museum of Fine Art and take your sketchbook.
You will almost certainly come away inspired, by what others have
done and will want to then do your own thing.To all artists out there, can you pls give me some advice/tips about this:?
ohh myy godd. this happens to me so much, i would need some good advice too.... but i always sketch/paint wat im thinking/feeling at the moment... if im happy, some happy scene..etcc..
well good luck,
if you're not in the mood, that within itself is the mood(s) you use to draw about,
do you have the correct tools like hb~2b~4b type pencils,
and medium large size sketching paper ,
if using other like pen%26amp;ink or coloured pencils,
solutions may vary,
just start drawing whats in front of you, table wall, lights...etc. ,
go outside later , find something of interest, trees, cars etc. ,
or just plain doodle...
yep, this happens a lot to me as well :) ...what i usually do when i HAVE to draw sumthing, is that i go to art shows, gallaries, or just look on the internet for sum inspiration. if there is sumthing in particular i want/have to draw, then i do a little research on it. i look through images n study them. that usually helps me come up w/ sumthin, or it gets me in the mood to do sumthing as inspiring as what i had just seen.
i must say, music doesnt work for me until im actually doing the work, before, it just distracts me :(
good luck! :D
I always turn to music. It helps clear the mind.
Don't force it and don't think about drawing.
Drawing must come out your hearth and soul and that's something you can't force.
Go outside take a large walk in a park or nature and let all the good things coming to you.
you will see, it helps.
I know what your going through. What sparks your interests? How do you feel about something? Try drawing what you are feeling. I personally like to take mythology and re-work it how I personally see it as. Experiment with everything. For me, my muse can show up anywhere, from something on TV or even something someone just said. Have friends or family blurt out an object and then draw it. Have your own personal space to which to work from and don't do anything else from there, that helps out alot on the whole mood thing.
That's all and, tahnks in advance.. ^_^To all artists out there, can you pls give me some advice/tips about this:?
Go to your local Museum of Fine Art and take your sketchbook.
You will almost certainly come away inspired, by what others have
done and will want to then do your own thing.To all artists out there, can you pls give me some advice/tips about this:?
ohh myy godd. this happens to me so much, i would need some good advice too.... but i always sketch/paint wat im thinking/feeling at the moment... if im happy, some happy scene..etcc..
well good luck,
if you're not in the mood, that within itself is the mood(s) you use to draw about,
do you have the correct tools like hb~2b~4b type pencils,
and medium large size sketching paper ,
if using other like pen%26amp;ink or coloured pencils,
solutions may vary,
just start drawing whats in front of you, table wall, lights...etc. ,
go outside later , find something of interest, trees, cars etc. ,
or just plain doodle...
yep, this happens a lot to me as well :) ...what i usually do when i HAVE to draw sumthing, is that i go to art shows, gallaries, or just look on the internet for sum inspiration. if there is sumthing in particular i want/have to draw, then i do a little research on it. i look through images n study them. that usually helps me come up w/ sumthin, or it gets me in the mood to do sumthing as inspiring as what i had just seen.
i must say, music doesnt work for me until im actually doing the work, before, it just distracts me :(
good luck! :D
I always turn to music. It helps clear the mind.
Don't force it and don't think about drawing.
Drawing must come out your hearth and soul and that's something you can't force.
Go outside take a large walk in a park or nature and let all the good things coming to you.
you will see, it helps.
I know what your going through. What sparks your interests? How do you feel about something? Try drawing what you are feeling. I personally like to take mythology and re-work it how I personally see it as. Experiment with everything. For me, my muse can show up anywhere, from something on TV or even something someone just said. Have friends or family blurt out an object and then draw it. Have your own personal space to which to work from and don't do anything else from there, that helps out alot on the whole mood thing.
Advice required about Cataract surgery?
My mom has Cataract. What's the Safest and Early recovery method available ? Is hospitalization required to remove Cataract ? Are Easy method like Laser or something available ?Advice required about Cataract surgery?
cataract surgery is among the most common and safest surgeries out there.
you do not need to be hospitalized.
in most cases only a local anesthesia is used to numb the eye and the person will be fully awake during the surgery. in some cases if the patient is extremely nervous IV sedation may be used and in a very small amount of patients general anesthesia is used.
the surgery itself takes about 15 minutes.
and you'll be in and out of the hospital/surgery center with in a couple hours.
a very small incision is made and the old cloudy lens is removed. and then a new artificial lens is put in.
there is literally NO pain during or after the surgery.
the recovery time is very short. usually the person will see much much better with in 24hrs after the eyes are no longer dilated by drops.
there are only a few restrictions and things you must do after the surgery and these ';rules'; only apply for about 2 weeks.
-you will have to sleep with an eye shield on for the first few days so you don't accidentally injur the eye while asleep.
-take all eye drops and other medications they prescibe you
-don't rub your eye
-don't lift more than 25 pounds
-if you go swimming don't fully put your head under water cuz the difference between the pressure above water as compared to below water could damage the eye
honestly thats about it. (my dr even told me i could go on a roller coaster the same day if i wanted to. i didn't get to an amusement park for a few weeks after the surgery though lol)
and cataract surgery is not something that has to be done immediately. your mom can take her time to decide when she wants to have it done. of course until she does get it done though her vision will only get worse.
here is a great link to learn all about cataracts and the surgery:
http://www.webmd.com/eye-health/cataract鈥?/a>Advice required about Cataract surgery?
There are no lasers involved in cataract surgery, but it is a simple process now.
It is done in a hospital, but as outpatient surgery , so she will be all done and back out within a couple of hours.
There is barely any recovery period, she will be just fine later the same day after the drowsy pill has worn off.
It's nothing to worry about these days, not like 15 years ago even.
cataract surgery is among the most common and safest surgeries out there.
you do not need to be hospitalized.
in most cases only a local anesthesia is used to numb the eye and the person will be fully awake during the surgery. in some cases if the patient is extremely nervous IV sedation may be used and in a very small amount of patients general anesthesia is used.
the surgery itself takes about 15 minutes.
and you'll be in and out of the hospital/surgery center with in a couple hours.
a very small incision is made and the old cloudy lens is removed. and then a new artificial lens is put in.
there is literally NO pain during or after the surgery.
the recovery time is very short. usually the person will see much much better with in 24hrs after the eyes are no longer dilated by drops.
there are only a few restrictions and things you must do after the surgery and these ';rules'; only apply for about 2 weeks.
-you will have to sleep with an eye shield on for the first few days so you don't accidentally injur the eye while asleep.
-take all eye drops and other medications they prescibe you
-don't rub your eye
-don't lift more than 25 pounds
-if you go swimming don't fully put your head under water cuz the difference between the pressure above water as compared to below water could damage the eye
honestly thats about it. (my dr even told me i could go on a roller coaster the same day if i wanted to. i didn't get to an amusement park for a few weeks after the surgery though lol)
and cataract surgery is not something that has to be done immediately. your mom can take her time to decide when she wants to have it done. of course until she does get it done though her vision will only get worse.
here is a great link to learn all about cataracts and the surgery:
http://www.webmd.com/eye-health/cataract鈥?/a>Advice required about Cataract surgery?
There are no lasers involved in cataract surgery, but it is a simple process now.
It is done in a hospital, but as outpatient surgery , so she will be all done and back out within a couple of hours.
There is barely any recovery period, she will be just fine later the same day after the drowsy pill has worn off.
It's nothing to worry about these days, not like 15 years ago even.
Astrological advice about education and marriage based on d.o.b.?
Am I manglik? How will that affect my education / marriage? Any remedies?
What is in store for me astrologically based on my place and date of birth?
I am most interested in knowing about difficulties foreseen in education, marriage and begetting children, as well as my health and health of relatives.
DOB: 9-May-1985
Time: 08:10pm
Place: Mumbai, Maharashtra, India.Astrological advice about education and marriage based on d.o.b.?
So many questions. As you want to know the difficulties you will face, i will enumerate some which may happen from time to time as per the timing and dasha. If you are pursuing the field relating to law or the field directly related to public that will be better for you. There may arise difficulties to pursue your field not because of any opposition but because of your health. You may have stomach/intestine problems. If you are female may face hormonal imbalance/menstrual problems. Some may suggest that you are not manglik as Sat and Rahu aspect in Lagna and D-9 respectively but my experience shows that such charts do favour troubles in married life combining with other factors. 2-3 relations are to be broken before maturing the marriage proposal. After marriage also difficulties are there, more maturity will be required to put in. You may also face problem in right Fallopian tube which may give trouble in child bearing, so take on yoga and pranayama well in advance which will also help you to overcome other health problems.Astrological advice about education and marriage based on d.o.b.?
yes you are a manglik with Mars in 7th house but itrs not necessry it will create problem in your matrriage.
Name: Fq
Sex: Female
Date of Birth: 9/5/1985
Time of Birth: 20:10:00
Place: Mumbai Latitude: 19:0:N Longitude: 72:48:E
Country: India Zone Time: 82:30:E
Personal Details
Lagan(Ascendent) Scorpio
Lagan Swami(Ascendent Lord) Mars
Rashi(Moon Sign) Sagittarius
Rashi Swami(Moon Sign Lord) Jupt
Nakshatra(Constellation) U. Asdha
Nakshatra Swami(Constellation Lord) Sun
Charan 1
Yoga Subha
Karan Gara
Janam Namakshar(Birth Name Character) BHE
Surya Rashi(Sun Sign) Taurus
Varana Brahmin
Vashya Chatuspad
Yoni Nakul
Gana Manushya
Nadi Antya
Varga Musaka
Planetary Positions
Planet Dir/Ret Speed Degrees Sign
Ascendant ---- ---- 25掳48'16'' Scorpio
Sun Dir 28掳59'38'' 25掳15'32'' Aries
Moon Dir 13掳52'19'' 29掳41'43'' Sagittarius
Mars Dir 20掳35'28'' 15掳29'27'' Taurus
Mercury Dir 9掳46'7'' 0掳1'54'' Aries
Jupiter Dir 2掳24'25'' 22掳14'22'' Capricornus
Venus Dir 14掳20'7'' 16掳5'25'' Pisces
Saturn Ret 2掳13'24'' 1掳38'28'' Scorpio
Rahu Ret 1掳35'15'' 24掳41'19'' Aries
Ketu Ret 1掳35'15'' 24掳41'19'' Libra
Uranus Ret 1掳1'55'' 23掳26'13'' Scorpio
Neptune Ret 0掳30'45'' 9掳39'30'' Sagittarius
Pluto Ret 0掳48'19'' 9掳16'0'' Libra
Ascendant Chart Moon Chart
Lagan Prediction
SCORPIO ASCENDANT
This is the eighth sign of the zodiac whose lord are mars. IV step of vishaka all the steps of anuradha and jyestha come under the purview of this sign. You are born in Scorpio ascendance. You are of medium height, wheatish complexion and with a broad fore head. You are vigorous, fat, robust, healthy, and majestic. You are religious; full of quest, interest is complex subject sand also knower of complex knowledge. You are fond of tourism you are of hard, rigid, stern and brave. You people are revengeful and do not target enmity so easily. Your attitude is sharp. Ordinarily you are sober by nature due to your magnetic personality people get attracted towards you the number of your friends is very large you also help your friends. You are opportunist and do boasting about your self.
You are imaginative type of person you make many plans but as soon as the work starts you loose interest and leave the work unaccomplished. You suffer losses due to believing other people prepositions at once. After your middle age you are tending to get inclined towards spiritualism. You are master of innovations and modernity. Your family life is average happy and harmonious. Even dissent existing between the couple you are successful in finding a way out of appeasement. Attitude of your off springs is just ordinarily satisfactory. You are successful in the field of academics. You are prone to become philosopher, professor, reader, writer, poet, dramatist or a singer. You are prone to make a permanent mart of popularity. You are prone to serve in the departments of espionage, military, and industrial sectors. Your interest in the field of active politics can give you prominence in this field also. Your attributed possible ailments can be of fever, headaches, blood pressure, throat and chest excessiveness of wind and cough injuries burns can also create worries for you.
born on thrus day, krishna paksha shasti,
uttarashada-1 vruchika lagna, dhanu rasi
mars in 7th , kalatra stana %26amp; in sukra house, ,
so kuja dosha effect , for some extent
moon/kuja in 6/8
sani in lagna
and in samasaptaka with kuja
hence they will play their role
better consult either in person or in proxy , a competent one nearer to, to have doubts cleared
What is in store for me astrologically based on my place and date of birth?
I am most interested in knowing about difficulties foreseen in education, marriage and begetting children, as well as my health and health of relatives.
DOB: 9-May-1985
Time: 08:10pm
Place: Mumbai, Maharashtra, India.Astrological advice about education and marriage based on d.o.b.?
So many questions. As you want to know the difficulties you will face, i will enumerate some which may happen from time to time as per the timing and dasha. If you are pursuing the field relating to law or the field directly related to public that will be better for you. There may arise difficulties to pursue your field not because of any opposition but because of your health. You may have stomach/intestine problems. If you are female may face hormonal imbalance/menstrual problems. Some may suggest that you are not manglik as Sat and Rahu aspect in Lagna and D-9 respectively but my experience shows that such charts do favour troubles in married life combining with other factors. 2-3 relations are to be broken before maturing the marriage proposal. After marriage also difficulties are there, more maturity will be required to put in. You may also face problem in right Fallopian tube which may give trouble in child bearing, so take on yoga and pranayama well in advance which will also help you to overcome other health problems.Astrological advice about education and marriage based on d.o.b.?
yes you are a manglik with Mars in 7th house but itrs not necessry it will create problem in your matrriage.
Name: Fq
Sex: Female
Date of Birth: 9/5/1985
Time of Birth: 20:10:00
Place: Mumbai Latitude: 19:0:N Longitude: 72:48:E
Country: India Zone Time: 82:30:E
Personal Details
Lagan(Ascendent) Scorpio
Lagan Swami(Ascendent Lord) Mars
Rashi(Moon Sign) Sagittarius
Rashi Swami(Moon Sign Lord) Jupt
Nakshatra(Constellation) U. Asdha
Nakshatra Swami(Constellation Lord) Sun
Charan 1
Yoga Subha
Karan Gara
Janam Namakshar(Birth Name Character) BHE
Surya Rashi(Sun Sign) Taurus
Varana Brahmin
Vashya Chatuspad
Yoni Nakul
Gana Manushya
Nadi Antya
Varga Musaka
Planetary Positions
Planet Dir/Ret Speed Degrees Sign
Ascendant ---- ---- 25掳48'16'' Scorpio
Sun Dir 28掳59'38'' 25掳15'32'' Aries
Moon Dir 13掳52'19'' 29掳41'43'' Sagittarius
Mars Dir 20掳35'28'' 15掳29'27'' Taurus
Mercury Dir 9掳46'7'' 0掳1'54'' Aries
Jupiter Dir 2掳24'25'' 22掳14'22'' Capricornus
Venus Dir 14掳20'7'' 16掳5'25'' Pisces
Saturn Ret 2掳13'24'' 1掳38'28'' Scorpio
Rahu Ret 1掳35'15'' 24掳41'19'' Aries
Ketu Ret 1掳35'15'' 24掳41'19'' Libra
Uranus Ret 1掳1'55'' 23掳26'13'' Scorpio
Neptune Ret 0掳30'45'' 9掳39'30'' Sagittarius
Pluto Ret 0掳48'19'' 9掳16'0'' Libra
Ascendant Chart Moon Chart
Lagan Prediction
SCORPIO ASCENDANT
This is the eighth sign of the zodiac whose lord are mars. IV step of vishaka all the steps of anuradha and jyestha come under the purview of this sign. You are born in Scorpio ascendance. You are of medium height, wheatish complexion and with a broad fore head. You are vigorous, fat, robust, healthy, and majestic. You are religious; full of quest, interest is complex subject sand also knower of complex knowledge. You are fond of tourism you are of hard, rigid, stern and brave. You people are revengeful and do not target enmity so easily. Your attitude is sharp. Ordinarily you are sober by nature due to your magnetic personality people get attracted towards you the number of your friends is very large you also help your friends. You are opportunist and do boasting about your self.
You are imaginative type of person you make many plans but as soon as the work starts you loose interest and leave the work unaccomplished. You suffer losses due to believing other people prepositions at once. After your middle age you are tending to get inclined towards spiritualism. You are master of innovations and modernity. Your family life is average happy and harmonious. Even dissent existing between the couple you are successful in finding a way out of appeasement. Attitude of your off springs is just ordinarily satisfactory. You are successful in the field of academics. You are prone to become philosopher, professor, reader, writer, poet, dramatist or a singer. You are prone to make a permanent mart of popularity. You are prone to serve in the departments of espionage, military, and industrial sectors. Your interest in the field of active politics can give you prominence in this field also. Your attributed possible ailments can be of fever, headaches, blood pressure, throat and chest excessiveness of wind and cough injuries burns can also create worries for you.
born on thrus day, krishna paksha shasti,
uttarashada-1 vruchika lagna, dhanu rasi
mars in 7th , kalatra stana %26amp; in sukra house, ,
so kuja dosha effect , for some extent
moon/kuja in 6/8
sani in lagna
and in samasaptaka with kuja
hence they will play their role
better consult either in person or in proxy , a competent one nearer to, to have doubts cleared
Need advice about baby fish?
Hi we have had a tropical fish tank now for a month about 2 weeks ago we brought a few fish this morning I have noticed 3 tiny baby fish, do I need to do anything special to keep these baby fish alive thanks for any adviceNeed advice about baby fish?
Fry from fish and how to care and raise them vary from species to species and by far, you don't really have a all in one care package. Sometimes the fry, (thats babies) need to be housed away from other fish as they become targets as food for other fish. Seperating them out to an isloation/nursery tank is in many cases a good thing. Also to consider, some cichilds are active tending parents and look over thier fry so not much is needed to be done there. It would help to give you accurate advice if we knew what species of fish that had the babies. Mollies for example are known to eat thier own fry...why I have no idea, but it does happen.
Before you go really far into care, consider long term housing here. My point being, you now know you have a breeding pair of something in there, and this most likely wont be the first time you find babies. Where are you going to put all your extra fish? If you have a giant tank then I am sure it will be awhile before you reach your maximum bio load, if not, what plans do you have to keep and raise the fry?Need advice about baby fish?
I had a special net to put in my tank, and when the pregnant fish looked ready to pop, I would put here in there until the babies were born and then take the mother out again and leave the babies there until they were about 3 weeks old. I had lots and lots that way and they were great.
make sure the fish grows to a good size if u want to put a bigger fish in there because a big fish would eat the little tiny fish
If its not practical for you to get another tank buy a fish breeder keep them in it for a few weeks until they get a little bigger and at that point buy the dense plant there a plant called cabomba or something similar and that works quite well. and hope for the best most of the fry have probably been eaten if you can only see three.
I would buy a breeding net. It protects the baby fish from other fish from eating them. You can buy them at Walmart or a pet store. Mine is a green net and clips on the fish tank.
Hey depends what other fish you have you could separate them for a while to let them get a bit bigger so they dont get eaten or if u have plenty of rocks that then can hide in I think your ok. Enjoy your new fishies!
Odds are very high the babies are from a live bearer such as a molly, platy or guppy. In this case the only things you will need to do is offer them places to hide from the adults (which will eat them) and feed them finely crushed flake food. Most pet stores carry breeder nets that hang in your tank and will offer shelter to the baby fish.
MM
Sounds like you have guppies, swords and / or mollies (all live breeders).
Put in a lot of dense plant material (real or otherwise) where they can hide from the bigger fish (parents will eat the babies). Alternately you can buy a ';fish breeder'; which is a small plastic box that hangs on the side of the tank, to allow circulation, but also protection.
id keep in a seperate tank incase they are eaten by the adults,but it depends on breed of fish
separate tank until larger, same as above - depending on species. read up on species on the net, loads of great sitestop makeup
Fry from fish and how to care and raise them vary from species to species and by far, you don't really have a all in one care package. Sometimes the fry, (thats babies) need to be housed away from other fish as they become targets as food for other fish. Seperating them out to an isloation/nursery tank is in many cases a good thing. Also to consider, some cichilds are active tending parents and look over thier fry so not much is needed to be done there. It would help to give you accurate advice if we knew what species of fish that had the babies. Mollies for example are known to eat thier own fry...why I have no idea, but it does happen.
Before you go really far into care, consider long term housing here. My point being, you now know you have a breeding pair of something in there, and this most likely wont be the first time you find babies. Where are you going to put all your extra fish? If you have a giant tank then I am sure it will be awhile before you reach your maximum bio load, if not, what plans do you have to keep and raise the fry?Need advice about baby fish?
I had a special net to put in my tank, and when the pregnant fish looked ready to pop, I would put here in there until the babies were born and then take the mother out again and leave the babies there until they were about 3 weeks old. I had lots and lots that way and they were great.
make sure the fish grows to a good size if u want to put a bigger fish in there because a big fish would eat the little tiny fish
If its not practical for you to get another tank buy a fish breeder keep them in it for a few weeks until they get a little bigger and at that point buy the dense plant there a plant called cabomba or something similar and that works quite well. and hope for the best most of the fry have probably been eaten if you can only see three.
I would buy a breeding net. It protects the baby fish from other fish from eating them. You can buy them at Walmart or a pet store. Mine is a green net and clips on the fish tank.
Hey depends what other fish you have you could separate them for a while to let them get a bit bigger so they dont get eaten or if u have plenty of rocks that then can hide in I think your ok. Enjoy your new fishies!
Odds are very high the babies are from a live bearer such as a molly, platy or guppy. In this case the only things you will need to do is offer them places to hide from the adults (which will eat them) and feed them finely crushed flake food. Most pet stores carry breeder nets that hang in your tank and will offer shelter to the baby fish.
MM
Sounds like you have guppies, swords and / or mollies (all live breeders).
Put in a lot of dense plant material (real or otherwise) where they can hide from the bigger fish (parents will eat the babies). Alternately you can buy a ';fish breeder'; which is a small plastic box that hangs on the side of the tank, to allow circulation, but also protection.
id keep in a seperate tank incase they are eaten by the adults,but it depends on breed of fish
separate tank until larger, same as above - depending on species. read up on species on the net, loads of great sites
Need advice about piercing?
Hi,
I want to add some piercing on me but I cant make up my mind should I add one on my mouth or on my eyebrow and besides I want to get informed am I going to get some marks on my face in case if I want to remove it or am I not.
I need ur advice please.Need advice about piercing?
I have a pierced tongue. To me it wasn't bad getting it pierced, but it will be sore and swollen for a few days. Make sure that you get any piercings by a professional. If someone doesn't know what they are doing, they can hit a blood vessel in your tongue. When you do take the tongue ring out, it will leave a small mark on your tongue.Need advice about piercing?
I pierced my eyebrow and wore it for 3 years. As time wore on it slowly started to push out, but I took it out before it became a real issue. Honestly, I just got tired of sleeping on it. But that's the good thing about piercings, unlike tattoos you can ditch them when you're bored with it. No scaring for me, or at least my brows cover it. I think it's cooler for a guy than mouth piercings.
WHY?
if you get your eyebrow pierced and don't like it the holes are never gonnq close like even if you never put the ring back in
Well, oral piercings could cause damage to teeth if you don't have jewelry that's the correct length.
But, eyebrow piercings could reject (your body could push the jewelry out).
I have eyebrow piercing scars, and lip piercing scars, and I don't even notice the eyebrow scars anymore.. The lip scars, however, are still there after having no jewelry in for 3 years.
If you have any specific questions feel free to email me, I've had both piercings done.. 2-3 times each.
I want to add some piercing on me but I cant make up my mind should I add one on my mouth or on my eyebrow and besides I want to get informed am I going to get some marks on my face in case if I want to remove it or am I not.
I need ur advice please.Need advice about piercing?
I have a pierced tongue. To me it wasn't bad getting it pierced, but it will be sore and swollen for a few days. Make sure that you get any piercings by a professional. If someone doesn't know what they are doing, they can hit a blood vessel in your tongue. When you do take the tongue ring out, it will leave a small mark on your tongue.Need advice about piercing?
I pierced my eyebrow and wore it for 3 years. As time wore on it slowly started to push out, but I took it out before it became a real issue. Honestly, I just got tired of sleeping on it. But that's the good thing about piercings, unlike tattoos you can ditch them when you're bored with it. No scaring for me, or at least my brows cover it. I think it's cooler for a guy than mouth piercings.
WHY?
if you get your eyebrow pierced and don't like it the holes are never gonnq close like even if you never put the ring back in
Well, oral piercings could cause damage to teeth if you don't have jewelry that's the correct length.
But, eyebrow piercings could reject (your body could push the jewelry out).
I have eyebrow piercing scars, and lip piercing scars, and I don't even notice the eyebrow scars anymore.. The lip scars, however, are still there after having no jewelry in for 3 years.
If you have any specific questions feel free to email me, I've had both piercings done.. 2-3 times each.
Need Expert Advice about Legal drugs?
i have the biggest game of my life next weekend. i was just wondering if anyone could give me any advice on any items i should consume between now and then...and does anyone know any legal performance enhancing drugs i could take before the game...something to give me a little bit off a kick while keeping me calm and composed..
tnxsNeed Expert Advice about Legal drugs?
no nothing legal. If you cant play off of your own merit, you shouldn't be playing.Need Expert Advice about Legal drugs?
Eat as much spaghetti and meatballs as you can the night before. Load up on carbs and take it easy on the practises, avoid injury.
tnxsNeed Expert Advice about Legal drugs?
no nothing legal. If you cant play off of your own merit, you shouldn't be playing.Need Expert Advice about Legal drugs?
Eat as much spaghetti and meatballs as you can the night before. Load up on carbs and take it easy on the practises, avoid injury.
Crushing on a guy i have never talked to and dreamed about. Advice?
Okay. So this is kind of strange. About a month ago i had a dream and this guy(we will call him Ben for this stories purpose) was in it. I'm not going to retell the whole dream but basically i walked up to him in the halls at school and he told me he loved me. I don't usually have dreams so this one kind of stuck out. So after that i started noticing ';Ben'; in the halls more and more. I even realized he is in one of my studies. Anyways, he's a year older, i don't know his real name, he's on the track team(so am i) and he doesn't seem too much out of my league. i have no idea how to start talking to him or whatever. Keep in mind that i am very shy and have never had a boyfriend before and that none of my friends are friends with him or any of his friends. Do you have any advice?Crushing on a guy i have never talked to and dreamed about. Advice?
You should definitely try to interact with this guy. Try some small talk with him for example talk about track with him, ask him how his events are. Throw him some comments here and there and eventually you 2 will hold nice conversations and then BAM! your in.
But just remember this.... you only live once, so don't live your life in regret about how you never took a step toward ';Ben';Crushing on a guy i have never talked to and dreamed about. Advice?
Walk up to him and just say hi. If your uncomfortable with that, you can find an excuse to talk to him. For example, you could say hey ';Ben'; do you know if we have track practice today? Or hey ';Ben'; do you know when our next track meet is? After that you could say by the way my name is so-and-so, whats your name? Something like that. Hope this helps. Good Luck!
uh your young you'll figure something out... cause the way it sounds you are still in high school just try bumping into him in the halls or something
Who knows it may work if you start talking to him. It never works for me.
You should definitely try to interact with this guy. Try some small talk with him for example talk about track with him, ask him how his events are. Throw him some comments here and there and eventually you 2 will hold nice conversations and then BAM! your in.
But just remember this.... you only live once, so don't live your life in regret about how you never took a step toward ';Ben';Crushing on a guy i have never talked to and dreamed about. Advice?
Walk up to him and just say hi. If your uncomfortable with that, you can find an excuse to talk to him. For example, you could say hey ';Ben'; do you know if we have track practice today? Or hey ';Ben'; do you know when our next track meet is? After that you could say by the way my name is so-and-so, whats your name? Something like that. Hope this helps. Good Luck!
uh your young you'll figure something out... cause the way it sounds you are still in high school just try bumping into him in the halls or something
Who knows it may work if you start talking to him. It never works for me.
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I planning create useful news site about ';Insurance';
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I'm scared to marry him, look at what he lied about! advice please?
my bf and i usually have lunch between my college classes. he leaves work and picks me up from college to go out. yesterday i asked him to drop me off a little earlier cause i wanted to do some research before class.
he questioned this 'why i want to go to uni early for a change'.
anyway when i got there and started working on my research, he starts calling, i refused to answer, cause i knew he was going to check up on wat i was doing.
he went frantic and i starting messaging : 'what i are u doing!' tell me now!
i'm used to this kind of behavior, but this time he claimed to have come to the campus and was looking me: ' i'm searching all the classes, come out'
we didn't end up meeting face to face that day at campus.
now IT GETS INTERESTING!
today when we were arguing about his behavior yest, he said: ' i didnt really come looking for you, i just said i was, but infact i wasnt' .
WHAT the HELL!I'm scared to marry him, look at what he lied about! advice please?
I agree with your being leery about the thought of marriage to this guy.
It's always hard to advise without knowing the whole situation. Is there anything in your past that might cause him to be suspicious?
If there is not already some conflict between you about past behavior on your part, then he should have accepted what you said without any question.
Telling you he wasn't searching was either a lie, or proof that he was engaging in some real manipulation.
I would think twice about marriage to him too. If he has reasons for his outburst, see if you two can negotiate how to handle situations like this in the future. Then wait a good year before considering marriage to him.
This controlling pattern is very common in men who become physically abusive later on. If he is doing this stuff for no good reason, I would break off the relationship now, before he becomes downright dangerous.I'm scared to marry him, look at what he lied about! advice please?
Controlling men are not impossible to live with........ It's just really depressing and crushes your sense of self worth. You'll end up with no friends and no decisions of your ow.
Oh, and it almost always ends up with him hitting you so if that is what you want your future to be then go ahead and get married to him.
Good luck. You're going to need it!
WOW!! Serioulsy, he does sound like a control freak! If he is like that now when you get married it will just get worse... Tell him you need space. %26amp; see how he reacts to that.
You seriously need to think about it twice before putting a ring on your finger.
%26amp; LOVE doesn't CONQUER it all!!!
Uh-Oh! He's bad news. If u marry this guy, you may kiss your freedom goodbye. He'll control your life until u don't exist anymore, and your world would only revolve around him. Dump Him!
Lying is the least of your problems with this guy. He's a control freak and you can say good bye to your friends, family and self worth if you marry him. Walk away from this relationship.
That sounds like a relationship you shouldn't be in. He doesn't seem to trust you and he seems very demanding and controlling.
this is silly, why are you with this guy? make sure you get a very detailed prenuptial agreement if even contemplate marriage.
red flag baby a control freak.. I hope you like your living room, because he'll never let you out of it... he'll control your every move so he can hide his.. what smart woman goes into a marriage AFRAID?
Wow are you lucky get as far away from this man as quickly as possible. Need say no more..
he questioned this 'why i want to go to uni early for a change'.
anyway when i got there and started working on my research, he starts calling, i refused to answer, cause i knew he was going to check up on wat i was doing.
he went frantic and i starting messaging : 'what i are u doing!' tell me now!
i'm used to this kind of behavior, but this time he claimed to have come to the campus and was looking me: ' i'm searching all the classes, come out'
we didn't end up meeting face to face that day at campus.
now IT GETS INTERESTING!
today when we were arguing about his behavior yest, he said: ' i didnt really come looking for you, i just said i was, but infact i wasnt' .
WHAT the HELL!I'm scared to marry him, look at what he lied about! advice please?
I agree with your being leery about the thought of marriage to this guy.
It's always hard to advise without knowing the whole situation. Is there anything in your past that might cause him to be suspicious?
If there is not already some conflict between you about past behavior on your part, then he should have accepted what you said without any question.
Telling you he wasn't searching was either a lie, or proof that he was engaging in some real manipulation.
I would think twice about marriage to him too. If he has reasons for his outburst, see if you two can negotiate how to handle situations like this in the future. Then wait a good year before considering marriage to him.
This controlling pattern is very common in men who become physically abusive later on. If he is doing this stuff for no good reason, I would break off the relationship now, before he becomes downright dangerous.I'm scared to marry him, look at what he lied about! advice please?
Controlling men are not impossible to live with........ It's just really depressing and crushes your sense of self worth. You'll end up with no friends and no decisions of your ow.
Oh, and it almost always ends up with him hitting you so if that is what you want your future to be then go ahead and get married to him.
Good luck. You're going to need it!
WOW!! Serioulsy, he does sound like a control freak! If he is like that now when you get married it will just get worse... Tell him you need space. %26amp; see how he reacts to that.
You seriously need to think about it twice before putting a ring on your finger.
%26amp; LOVE doesn't CONQUER it all!!!
Uh-Oh! He's bad news. If u marry this guy, you may kiss your freedom goodbye. He'll control your life until u don't exist anymore, and your world would only revolve around him. Dump Him!
Lying is the least of your problems with this guy. He's a control freak and you can say good bye to your friends, family and self worth if you marry him. Walk away from this relationship.
That sounds like a relationship you shouldn't be in. He doesn't seem to trust you and he seems very demanding and controlling.
this is silly, why are you with this guy? make sure you get a very detailed prenuptial agreement if even contemplate marriage.
red flag baby a control freak.. I hope you like your living room, because he'll never let you out of it... he'll control your every move so he can hide his.. what smart woman goes into a marriage AFRAID?
Wow are you lucky get as far away from this man as quickly as possible. Need say no more..
Help... Need advice about work?
I have reached the point where i need to find a new job. I have been submitting resumes on hotjobs, careerbuilder and monster.com and I am having no luck with any of it. I have a B.S. in biology from a very good school and I feel like this job isn't using my knowledge or my skills. Does anyone have any advice about how to find a good job? I need to know what I am doing wrong...
Thanks for the help!!!Help... Need advice about work?
What you're doing wrong is tossing your resume out into the ether and expecting the employer to do all the work to find you. You need to take a more proactive approach.
Decide what kinds of jobs you want to do (marine biologist? Researcher? pharmaceuticals?) that would use your education. Then find companies that do that kind of work, do some research on them, and CALL them and ask to speak to the human resources people. Tell them about yourself, ask them what positions they have open, and tell them you'd like to send your resume to be considered. Go after the jobs you want, don't just toss out a resume and wait for your ';ideal'; job to come to you.
Good luck.Help... Need advice about work?
You need to ask around. Talk to colleagues in your field. Get good word of mouth going. Those job Web sites won't get you anywhere. Unless you want to manage a Taco Bell...
unfortuantley the only way someone will find you is if you continue to updat your resume and cover letter on those sites. Stay on top of it. Look in the classifieds and local newspapers that have job postings. Look on Craigslist and other online companies that have job listings.
Good Luck!
My brother is going through the same thing. My advice to him was that the grass is greener theory holds true when it comes to employment. If you have good pay, room to 'move up', and good benefits, then stay. Every job I ever had I disliked my boss, and most of my co-workers too. SSDD, ya know? There are always going to be a$$hole bosses and incompetent co-workers. Sometimes you just trade one bad situation for another. Cheers to those who have good bosses and friendly co-workers I envy you! Luckily now, I'm my own boss, and sometimes I'm even mean to myself! LOL!!!
With a specialized degree like yours, you might do better going through a headhunter than through resume submission sites. Look into recruiting firms in your area. The legitimate ones will not charge the candidate a fee for placement; placement is paid by the employer. An employer looking for a person with a highly specialized skillset will be more likely to go through a headhunter than a recruitment web site.
Sadly, I'm in the same situation as you. Just keep submitting applications. Think about other areas you would be interested in--look at different industries. Alumni associations are also good resources for finding out what's out there for your field. Trust me, you're not doing anything wrong. Keep your head up and keep applying. I wish you the best of luck....
well i think that your probably not doing anything wrong but the other people are just stupid ....just don't worry because life is not fare :].
I think that there is a only one place where your skill will get proper shape that is http://www.careerbharat.com .
Seek out a headhunter in your city ... that is where I would start. Some companies will charge you for their services but it can be beneficial in the end because they can place you in the workforce.
I would also try something in pharmaceutical sales if you want to get into a large company that is medically driven.top makeup
Thanks for the help!!!Help... Need advice about work?
What you're doing wrong is tossing your resume out into the ether and expecting the employer to do all the work to find you. You need to take a more proactive approach.
Decide what kinds of jobs you want to do (marine biologist? Researcher? pharmaceuticals?) that would use your education. Then find companies that do that kind of work, do some research on them, and CALL them and ask to speak to the human resources people. Tell them about yourself, ask them what positions they have open, and tell them you'd like to send your resume to be considered. Go after the jobs you want, don't just toss out a resume and wait for your ';ideal'; job to come to you.
Good luck.Help... Need advice about work?
You need to ask around. Talk to colleagues in your field. Get good word of mouth going. Those job Web sites won't get you anywhere. Unless you want to manage a Taco Bell...
unfortuantley the only way someone will find you is if you continue to updat your resume and cover letter on those sites. Stay on top of it. Look in the classifieds and local newspapers that have job postings. Look on Craigslist and other online companies that have job listings.
Good Luck!
My brother is going through the same thing. My advice to him was that the grass is greener theory holds true when it comes to employment. If you have good pay, room to 'move up', and good benefits, then stay. Every job I ever had I disliked my boss, and most of my co-workers too. SSDD, ya know? There are always going to be a$$hole bosses and incompetent co-workers. Sometimes you just trade one bad situation for another. Cheers to those who have good bosses and friendly co-workers I envy you! Luckily now, I'm my own boss, and sometimes I'm even mean to myself! LOL!!!
With a specialized degree like yours, you might do better going through a headhunter than through resume submission sites. Look into recruiting firms in your area. The legitimate ones will not charge the candidate a fee for placement; placement is paid by the employer. An employer looking for a person with a highly specialized skillset will be more likely to go through a headhunter than a recruitment web site.
Sadly, I'm in the same situation as you. Just keep submitting applications. Think about other areas you would be interested in--look at different industries. Alumni associations are also good resources for finding out what's out there for your field. Trust me, you're not doing anything wrong. Keep your head up and keep applying. I wish you the best of luck....
well i think that your probably not doing anything wrong but the other people are just stupid ....just don't worry because life is not fare :].
I think that there is a only one place where your skill will get proper shape that is http://www.careerbharat.com .
Seek out a headhunter in your city ... that is where I would start. Some companies will charge you for their services but it can be beneficial in the end because they can place you in the workforce.
I would also try something in pharmaceutical sales if you want to get into a large company that is medically driven.
I need advice about a guy?
We maid plans to go out on a date this weekend, but he's only givin me a day and a time. He hasn't said where to meet him at. I've tryed to ask him and he just says ';i'll get back to you on that'; everytime. Is he planning a suprize? or Is he just playin me?I need advice about a guy?
if your date is for friday night i'd be worried!
maybe he just hasnt decided where he wants to take you yet. if he's picking you up, then don't worry about it, just be ready by the time he gets there. if not, my brother waits until 10 minutes before to make a decision. thats what cell phones are for don't panic! go with the flow.
but be prepared for plan b if it comes to a no show though!
good luck! :-)I need advice about a guy?
he is so planning a surprise!
first date? he's playing you....or he's busy and hasn't made any plans yet..just roll with the punches..
i don't think it's a suprise i think he's playing u. if he rilly wants 2 go out with u he will let you pick at least the day.
Just wait and see what happens. Don't jump to conclusions. If he is playing games with you then you will find out soon enough and if that is the case, don't ever call him again and move on. Just take it as him doing you a favor. :)
I think he is planning a surprise. cool uh?
Well, it goes without saying that you need to know certain details for a date, when and where to meet among them. Contact him on this again, and bring it to his attention that he hasn't said anything about where you're supposed to meet.
i really really don't think hes planing a surprise lol
You come up with place, suggest it to him. Then if you don't hear back from him. Move on, I'm sure one of your friends might think your beautiful ;)
if your date is for friday night i'd be worried!
maybe he just hasnt decided where he wants to take you yet. if he's picking you up, then don't worry about it, just be ready by the time he gets there. if not, my brother waits until 10 minutes before to make a decision. thats what cell phones are for don't panic! go with the flow.
but be prepared for plan b if it comes to a no show though!
good luck! :-)I need advice about a guy?
he is so planning a surprise!
first date? he's playing you....or he's busy and hasn't made any plans yet..just roll with the punches..
i don't think it's a suprise i think he's playing u. if he rilly wants 2 go out with u he will let you pick at least the day.
Just wait and see what happens. Don't jump to conclusions. If he is playing games with you then you will find out soon enough and if that is the case, don't ever call him again and move on. Just take it as him doing you a favor. :)
I think he is planning a surprise. cool uh?
Well, it goes without saying that you need to know certain details for a date, when and where to meet among them. Contact him on this again, and bring it to his attention that he hasn't said anything about where you're supposed to meet.
i really really don't think hes planing a surprise lol
You come up with place, suggest it to him. Then if you don't hear back from him. Move on, I'm sure one of your friends might think your beautiful ;)
I am dating a blind guy... and Need some advice about it.?
I am dating a wonderful blind guy and we've been quite intimate...Should I worry at all about sharing my life with a blind person?I am dating a blind guy... and Need some advice about it.?
I'm legally blind myself... as a blind person I would say I hope that you wouldn't see him any different then you would as a ';normal'; guy, nobody is perfect and that is his imperfection.
We disabled people are very insecure about our disabilities and i know he probably wouldn't like the fact your questioning this but all I can say is please don't see him any differently then anyone else, its really painful, I know first hand.I am dating a blind guy... and Need some advice about it.?
My cousin who is partially blind, married a blind man. She got along just fine.
What I think would help you is a library. You should go to the library and read books about other people that have had marriages and relationships with blind partners. You will learn something, so you won't be wasting your time.
I don't see why you should worry. There will obviously be things he won't be able to do, but I'm sure what he lacks in sight, he makes up for in other things. You will need to adapt slightly, but that comes with love anyway. He loves you for you, he didn't 'look' at you and think ';wow, she's a beauty';, he heard and felt you. He felt and understood the person; you.
Enjoy your life together and enjoy the happiness you both share.
No worrying yourself to doubt!!!! You both love each other and GOD does not make mistakes.
Good Luck to the both of you
I think it's very admirable that you care about a person for who they are and not their disabilities.
I'm sure it's going to be different then being with a person who isn't blind but if you care and want to be with someone that's all that matters.
I'm sure he's a very lucky guy to have you :)
Why would it bother you if he is blind or not? If you love him and have feelings for him then I wouldn't worry about it. If someone who was blind or not treated me good and was interested in my life I would share it with him.
if you really love him, you should not bother if he's blind. remember LOVE IS BLIND!!!!!=)
You are not dating a blind guy....you are dating a guy who happens to be blind. If HE is right what does it matter/. It will need working on but all relationships do.
Don't go for such a thing.What is it if he is blind?He loves u,u love him.So never think like that.U can live happily with him
forever.Not many girls chose boys who are disable.U are great.If God hasn't givn him something normal,then he has given him a extraordinary thing %26amp; thats LOVE.
My dear you have given love a new definition.......
Keep up the good work............
God is , where love is.........
He will show you the way.......
I'm legally blind myself... as a blind person I would say I hope that you wouldn't see him any different then you would as a ';normal'; guy, nobody is perfect and that is his imperfection.
We disabled people are very insecure about our disabilities and i know he probably wouldn't like the fact your questioning this but all I can say is please don't see him any differently then anyone else, its really painful, I know first hand.I am dating a blind guy... and Need some advice about it.?
My cousin who is partially blind, married a blind man. She got along just fine.
What I think would help you is a library. You should go to the library and read books about other people that have had marriages and relationships with blind partners. You will learn something, so you won't be wasting your time.
I don't see why you should worry. There will obviously be things he won't be able to do, but I'm sure what he lacks in sight, he makes up for in other things. You will need to adapt slightly, but that comes with love anyway. He loves you for you, he didn't 'look' at you and think ';wow, she's a beauty';, he heard and felt you. He felt and understood the person; you.
Enjoy your life together and enjoy the happiness you both share.
No worrying yourself to doubt!!!! You both love each other and GOD does not make mistakes.
Good Luck to the both of you
I think it's very admirable that you care about a person for who they are and not their disabilities.
I'm sure it's going to be different then being with a person who isn't blind but if you care and want to be with someone that's all that matters.
I'm sure he's a very lucky guy to have you :)
Why would it bother you if he is blind or not? If you love him and have feelings for him then I wouldn't worry about it. If someone who was blind or not treated me good and was interested in my life I would share it with him.
if you really love him, you should not bother if he's blind. remember LOVE IS BLIND!!!!!=)
You are not dating a blind guy....you are dating a guy who happens to be blind. If HE is right what does it matter/. It will need working on but all relationships do.
Don't go for such a thing.What is it if he is blind?He loves u,u love him.So never think like that.U can live happily with him
forever.Not many girls chose boys who are disable.U are great.If God hasn't givn him something normal,then he has given him a extraordinary thing %26amp; thats LOVE.
My dear you have given love a new definition.......
Keep up the good work............
God is , where love is.........
He will show you the way.......
Advice needed about credit cards/loans?
I am planning a trip next march so i want about 拢1000 credit which i would pay off by direct debit every payday (about 拢30 per week) between now and then.
could i get a card that will give me interest free until then and let me pay it all off, and can i cancel the card then without penalty?
ive looked into it a bit but im not really familiar with the termenology. any advice appreciated!Advice needed about credit cards/loans?
Credit cards charge interest on the outstanding balance. If you don't pay off a credit card balance at the end of the month, the bank charges interest on whatever isn't paid off.
What fees and penalties a card charges will be in their Terms %26amp; Conditions. I've not heard of a card that charges a fee for closing an account.
Using a credit card to finance a vacation is an expensive way to do it. You'd be much smarter to save up 拢30 between now and next March and pay cash.
could i get a card that will give me interest free until then and let me pay it all off, and can i cancel the card then without penalty?
ive looked into it a bit but im not really familiar with the termenology. any advice appreciated!Advice needed about credit cards/loans?
Credit cards charge interest on the outstanding balance. If you don't pay off a credit card balance at the end of the month, the bank charges interest on whatever isn't paid off.
What fees and penalties a card charges will be in their Terms %26amp; Conditions. I've not heard of a card that charges a fee for closing an account.
Using a credit card to finance a vacation is an expensive way to do it. You'd be much smarter to save up 拢30 between now and next March and pay cash.
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