Friday, April 30, 2010

Crushing on a guy i have never talked to and dreamed about. Advice?

Okay. So this is kind of strange. About a month ago i had a dream and this guy(we will call him Ben for this stories purpose) was in it. I'm not going to retell the whole dream but basically i walked up to him in the halls at school and he told me he loved me. I don't usually have dreams so this one kind of stuck out. So after that i started noticing ';Ben'; in the halls more and more. I even realized he is in one of my studies. Anyways, he's a year older, i don't know his real name, he's on the track team(so am i) and he doesn't seem too much out of my league. i have no idea how to start talking to him or whatever. Keep in mind that i am very shy and have never had a boyfriend before and that none of my friends are friends with him or any of his friends. Do you have any advice?Crushing on a guy i have never talked to and dreamed about. Advice?
You should definitely try to interact with this guy. Try some small talk with him for example talk about track with him, ask him how his events are. Throw him some comments here and there and eventually you 2 will hold nice conversations and then BAM! your in.


But just remember this.... you only live once, so don't live your life in regret about how you never took a step toward ';Ben';Crushing on a guy i have never talked to and dreamed about. Advice?
Walk up to him and just say hi. If your uncomfortable with that, you can find an excuse to talk to him. For example, you could say hey ';Ben'; do you know if we have track practice today? Or hey ';Ben'; do you know when our next track meet is? After that you could say by the way my name is so-and-so, whats your name? Something like that. Hope this helps. Good Luck!
uh your young you'll figure something out... cause the way it sounds you are still in high school just try bumping into him in the halls or something
Who knows it may work if you start talking to him. It never works for me.

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