Saturday, December 19, 2009

Advice about an overconfident guy?

I was falling for this guy, he seemed so perfect. Sucessful, good looking. You get the idea.





No one knew I liked him, but when I talk to my friends, and we start talking about that guy, they tell me that he's way overconfident and tries to hit on girls a lot. :/





I'm sure they weren't try to keep me away from him because they want him all to themselves. They didn't even know I liked him.





Hearing this from others....is it a good sign that I should stay away from him?Advice about an overconfident guy?
Yes.





Being that you're so close to the issue, you're probably least likely to see it objectively. Sad to say, but your friends are probably seeing the situation with a lot less bias than you, since they're not attracted to him.





I think it's a good sign that you should LET HIM COME TO YOU.





I say that because confidence doesn't equal infidelity. If he truly wants YOU, he's more likely to be faithful. And I agree that playing 'hard to get' wouldn't be a bad thing. IF he's just looking for a conquest, he won't spend a lot of time pursuing you.





The fact that he hits on a lot of girls- so what? He's not IN a relationship. Now, if your friends can attest to his behavior while in a relationship, that's another story.





Advice about an overconfident guy?
If you are going out with that guy then probably you can tell if he is or not. Weigh things out, i mean how can your friends say that he's over confident? Do they know him personally? Were they victims of the guy's over confidence? You don't need to stay away from him, just try to observe but never take away the idea of what your friends told you about him, just for your own good.
Listen to these girls but form your own opinion.


I wouldn't go out of my way to make anything happen. Don't go after him, 'n don't try to avoid him. Let things happen naturally. If he notices you, and starts to pursue you, then be easy to be with but not so easy to get. Don't be anybody's fool. Keep your good morals and high principles in place and no girls gone wild behavior. If a guy comes after you, make him work hard to get you and he won't be likely to flirt with other girls or take you for granted.






There r times when u can take someones word for it like ';the sky is falling'; yeah...don't go check but in matters of the heart only word that matters is ur's . In other words give the guy a chance maybe he is jus a flirt looking for the right one...you. And don't forget with ';friends'; sometimes jealousy can rear its ugly head so jus take ur time, get to know him better, pay attention to if he is ';overconfident'; to a fault he could be overcompensating for a lack of other things. Much luck!
Well do your own investigation. You do have a point where other girls want them for themselves, just see how he behaves if he is overconfident then like stay away else continue talking to him
have you ever squeezed a loved one's face and forced them to say pumpkin? it's cute.





it's just not the same when you squeeze their face and they say ';christmas tree'; or ';menorah';
Guys like that are very hard to be in a relationship with because they are very into themselves. unless you are willin to be a shadow don't go for it
yes most definately
Well I act the same way with every girl they think I'm an asshole they think I'm too cocky
Stay out of trouble!!
nooope! follow your heart and even if he is overconfident it could be a ';mask'; kinda thingg

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